Where Do The Forces Go?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

“I don’t understand where all the forces disappear? It seems that they are pouring out through some kind of hole…” my friend told me today.

Thinking how to help, I tried to remember my feeling that there was no strength; when it seems that it is empty inside and there is nothing left; when it is not very clear WHERE? Where do they disappear …

There is one person whom I was able to help in this matter - this is I.

I found my answers to "WHERE?", "WHY?" and "WHAT TO DO?"

Perhaps my experience will help you find those paths "up", which are still hidden from your eyes.

So.

Once it dawned on me that I have time to do an incredible amount of things, when I am busy, when a lot is planned and a lot needs to be done, and in the moments of "free" days, almost unloaded with work, when it seems "Today I will finally have time to do everything I wanted ! " - eloquent facts, with which you cannot argue, speak of something else - NOTHING (!) or practically nothing was actually done.

Example.

When my second baby was growing up, my husband decided to leave for another city for a couple of days for his mother's birthday, and my mother (we then lived with my parents) also left.

Of course, I coped with cooking, and with children, and with work - I agreed and worked while the baby was sleeping with clients.

I was surprised by this:

there was time to take a walk with the child, there was time to learn French every day and to watch a film that I had been planning for a long time and meet with a friend, and do exercises, and dye my hair … it wasnt !!!

Where did this time suddenly "come from"?

Reflecting on this, at a certain moment I clearly understood:

When I do nothing, then "NOTHING" begins to rule my life; as if I myself turn into nothing …

Into a person who flows with the flow, does some routine things, who is always busy with little invisible trifles - like Alyonushka (from the fairy tale about sister Alyonushka and Bratz Ivanushka), who, remember, was under water and could not get out, because the underwater grass bound her arms and legs …

In fact, at such moments: there is no movement towards a dream, no clear goals, no regular precise actions, NOTHING, except for constant employment and living as if it were not your own life at all.

Why "not your own"?

But because I know what I want. I am not a vegetable, not a biorobot, in the mode: work, eat, sleep, I am a MAN who understands what he wants in life, why he lives this life, why he wakes up in the morning.

No, not everything is so rosy and easy: sometimes the landmarks get lost, the light goes out at the end of the tunnel, and in general, at times it becomes dreary and lonely.

But thanks to such moments, or rather the fact that I WANT and know how to get out of them, to get up, to the Sun, I learned to resist this NOTHING.

All successful beautiful people whom I admire, whom I know personally (and there are many such, Thank God) and not personally, do the INCREDIBLE in just a small piece - in a day.

Their children attend a huge number of sections after school, somehow manage to do everything and do not want to give up anything;

Their work schedule is amazing.

Their results and achievements, their HEALTH, appearance and ability to keep themselves, their way of thinking and rules - cannot leave indifferent living people - those who have a heart beating inside, and not knocking, those who live, but do not exist, in people, and not shadows … And this is not a mask - they are.

They are like candles, such people!

They are like lights that wake up.

They are like a hope that resides in our souls again.

And I want to be one of them!

Not succumbing to NOTHING, not giving your immortal soul to be torn apart by Leni, which is called a mortal sin (!) For a reason, but to act.

Sometimes I directly hear loving voices from somewhere through the looking glass cry out:

GET OUT!

Wake up!

THIS IS NOT A DRAFT!

Here it is life, in every moment - LIVE !!!

LIVE!"

I know that I can do more. This is not bragging, no. I KNOW.

I can take better care of my health.

I can earn more and learn more.

I can play with children more often.

To be the best daughter, sister, wife …

Be more aware.

And I do my best for this, asking myself:

"For what? For whom?"

And the answers are born:

- for the sake of my children, present and future, so that they have before them a living, real example, not words, but actions - we are parents, we have a great power that cannot be underestimated in raising children by our OWN EXAMPLE. Children are our future. This is the gift that we gave them, and they give us. Their decisions will determine what our world will be like, our next births;

- for the sake of other people - the wise are always inspired by the success of others, since it is always our resource, which means it is, in principle, possible, for those who work and do not give up. We will all only benefit if there are more healthy, happy and harmonious people on planet Earth. Everyone will win. The hand of the giver will never fail. We are all bound by invisible threads;

- for our own sake - we all came here for DEVELOPMENT and the choice of each "what", "how" and "in what quantity" to develop, but I really want that on the day "H" it was easy and joyful for me and not at all ashamed of my thoughts, for words, for deeds; so that life, which will once again slip through your fingers, like a movie, will cause thrill and joy from real emotions, from the fact that it really WAS! And it was great!

- for the sake of those who believed me, trusted, responded to the call to build my body and were attracted in the form of organs, systems and their parts, cells, tiny particles and nanoparticles - their life depends on my worldview and my actions, healthy or not, bright or not really … Remember: "We are responsible for those who have tamed" ?! Everyone is like the ruler of his country. What about your residents of the Emerald City?

- for the sake of dreams that are born inside, which quietly and unobtrusively remind us of WHO WE ARE, remind us that we were born to create and co-create, remind us that everyone has LIGHT, that everyone has magic …

These are the things that fill my life with meaning and Light; what helps to resist NOTHING; gives strength to wake up every day, not to give up, falling - to rise, take another step, even if it is very small.

They are strength in action.

The more of them, the more joy from the result.

(albeit not always the name one you were waiting for), joy from the very movement forward, from awareness -

they say rightly, THE MEANING OF LIFE IS IN LIFE ITSELF!

And NEW FORCES are born from joy.

Take action!:)