What Scares Men In Women In The Dating Process

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

In the female environment, there are many myths about the reasons for the behavior of men. One of them is the assertion that a strong and confident man can easily meet women. Such a representative of the stronger sex is not afraid to approach any woman, no matter what mood she is in, and make an acquaintance. If a man cannot do this, women often conclude that a man is weak and lacking in initiative, and such a man is not suitable for a relationship.

In fact, everything is different. To begin with, a strong man, according to women, should be able to approach and get to know a woman no matter what. A man can be confident enough in himself, to be a great specialist in his field. He easily copes with some tasks that are in the range of his interests, and not only professional ones, while showing pressure and courage, but he is not an expert in meeting new women.

Nowadays, a lot of pick-up artists have appeared among men, here they are, they just specialize in the very process of dating, while they specially develop the competencies necessary for this. It is worth dividing those male skills that the representatives of the stronger sex possess, depending on the direction of their activities and the goals that they strive to achieve in life. If a man does not have dating skills, this does not mean that he is not successful in life, or not confident in himself. Conversely, a person who is familiar with ease may well turn out to be very superficial and uninterested in a serious relationship.

The next moment, men are sometimes afraid to meet women, not because they feel self-doubt, but because they are afraid of being rejected by women. Often, rejection from women is expressed in a critical form, and sometimes even in rudeness, it is the opportunity to receive a refusal in this form that scares men.

The roots of such fears are in childhood, in most cases, boys receive a lot of criticism from women who are significant to them, about what they did or said something wrong or wrong. This is naturally perceived as negative, and a habit is developed to avoid this kind of communication whenever possible. Projecting his childhood experience into adulthood, a man will unconsciously avoid the opportunity to receive from a woman, especially a stranger, a critical or rude remark in his address. Women who say that men are afraid to meet them should pay attention to what they broadcast to the outside world. Since if a man sees that a woman is too serious or mysterious, then most likely he will conclude that from such a woman, in response to an attempt to get acquainted, he will receive a dose of rejection. And therefore, the man considers it senseless to move in this direction.

Acquaintance is a very important stage in the development of relationships, therefore it is much more useful to try to understand the true reasons for behavior than to trust myths.

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Anton Chernykh.