Lilith. The Part That Scares And Drives You Crazy

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

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Yesterday I met a good article about Lilith and Eve on the Internet. I will not repeat the article about which of the subpersonalities plays what role. Everything is well described there. But I will tell you about the therapy of rejection of the part of Lilith

If we proceed from practice, then part of Lilith will not appear when we explore the topic of femininity as such. If we are talking about femininity / masculinity, then there we will visualize the inner man and the inner woman, who share 100% of the shares between themselves, and cannot in any way divide so that the person feels balanced. (That is, for example, a woman's inner woman owns only 20% of the shares, and the inner man owns 80%. There is an obvious imbalance).

Lilith, most likely, can manifest itself when we explore 2 topics: sex and relationship with God.

So sex.

The main reasons why people with delight and pleasure do not have sex and which can be caught in the unconscious almost immediately (if there are no stories related to sexual abuse in childhood) are:

1) the feeling that someone is looking at you during sex. We visualize those who are watching: mom, grandmother, dad, crowd, etc. We negotiate with them, send them to a well-deserved rest.

2) the feeling that one cannot relax and have pleasure, one cannot scream loudly in this pleasure, roll one's eyes, in general, openly go crazy - we also work with four-code presentations of these sensations using the method of integral neuroprogramming.

3) the topic of dirt in sex.

Part of Lilith can be found in the second paragraph, but in the third it can manifest itself best.

You can ask the client the following question: “What do you think your lecherous part looks like? The one who craves sex, maybe even dirty, etc."

And most likely, this part will appear before the client. Perhaps in the image of a beautiful neighbor from the third entrance, with the name Potaskushka (the name was given by vigilant old grandmothers from the vicinity). Perhaps in the form of a porn star who happened to meet on the Internet. The main thing is that she will be beautiful, inaccessible and very, very disgusting in her behavior.

Of course, I would like it not to be. But it is there. And thank God. Without her, it seems sad in bed.

Now the matter remains small. Make peace with the part. Accept her. Give thanks. Bow down (a fragment of work with parts of the "six" by S. V. Kovalev). Leave with you, loving and protecting.

Sometimes such work with this part is enough, and peace comes within. But sometimes, a lot of beliefs and even some parts can strongly resist leaving the "slut" to themselves. Then we work tirelessly.

We work with beliefs using the neurological code of the unconscious and put beliefs in a transformation box, where they are transformed. We work with the resisting parts according to Kovalev's "six" (we accept, thank, bow; give what is not needed, part; accept as a gift what is needed from the part; remove dependence on the part).

As a result, we must come to agreement and balance within ourselves. It is always important to remember that with any parts, holons, we work wisely, with respect, without aggression. We do not cut off anything, we do not throw out with shouts "but you get out of here", we do not tear ourselves away from ourselves with pieces and tears. In general, we understand and agree.

Lilith must sooner or later be accepted and sympathetic.

There is also the area of the unconscious, where, in my opinion, the image of Lilith manifests itself much brighter. This is when a woman, deep down in her soul, has claims to God. Such a woman is vulnerable, unhappy with the structure of this world and, most likely, will be the fourth type of enneagram.

What will Lilith say when she is called to appear before the gaze of the client's consciousness? “God, you are not fair, your world is awful, you do not love and reject me, me- Lilith. You drove me out of paradise, and I will take revenge on you. So the beautiful part of Lilith will say, with a challenge and glowing eyes, raising their blue-black wings to the sky.

And with this part we do everything the same as described above: accept, thank, bow, etc. Most likely, this part will “fall into the arms” of the client, offended and with tears, and it will need to be stroked on the head, saying “you are my good”. After which there will be complete reconciliation.

If we fight with some part within us, we "energize" it. If we try to go into plus, minus at the opposite end will increase in proportion to the increase in plus. The solution, as always, is balance, striving for zero, completely removing the charge and thus, in a good way, losing interest in the topic.