2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
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The difference between knowledge and information
While a person rummages on the Internet and reads everything, goes to all trainings simply because they seemed curious to him, all that he takes out from there is information that greatly burdens him, worsens his life. And when what is really needed is filtered out of it and is APPLIED in practice, with VISIBLE AND SUSTAINABLE results, this is knowledge.
The fact is that a person is a complex living system, with an equally complex set of internal psychological characteristics, fears, traumas, desires, complexes and other things like that. EVERY PERSON IS UNIQUE. And there are no general mechanisms of influence in order to make your life better, to solve your problem. EVERY PERSON NEEDS A UNIQUE APPROACH.
It is the same with practitioners. If a set of certain practices is useful to one person and it gives a result, then this does not mean at all that the same set will be useful to you. Therefore, it is quite normal for one person to praise a certain practice, and another blow it to smithereens.
And this is how many read everything in a row, go through the practices, and life does not get better or becomes, but not for a long time or it becomes, but then various external events provoke a person to return to old foundations, values and habits (because Life will always find a way to destroy that false that a person has built for himself believing his results or knowledge to be true and effective).
How to be in this case?
BE LIKE WHITE SHEET
And follow the principle "I know that I know nothing." The biggest mistake is to become attached to knowledge…. generally…. to any…. and yes, even those who are recognized as true have been approved by society two hundred times and have been approved by all your inner censors.
By being attached to knowledge, a person grows stiff. That to which he became attached gradually dies and becomes a dead weight, which he carries all his life. Do you need it?
Be like children: always leave some space for NEW in what you already know, have the courage to see new sides and facets of what you thought has long been known, study, be surprised.
LOOK AT KNOWLEDGE FROM BINOCULARS
You have stumbled upon new information. What are your actions? You should not immediately run and reconcile it on yourself, adapt it to your life and introduce it into the value system. So you risk losing time, health, money and much more, and besides, in such chaos, you risk missing out on knowledge that could be really important to you.
So, you stumbled upon new information…. Your actions: it is better to forget it right away:)…. if it does not work, then there may be something useful in it for you. What? Explore. Only carefully, objectively and without immersion in it. If you feel that the useful is not enough - feel free to forget, you definitely won't get any worse. If not, then start putting this information into practice. Ideally, you should get results fairly quickly and be sustainable. No result, but the theory is very beautiful? Forget in this case too. Why do you need a beautiful theory? You need your own experience. A person realizes (really realizes with all his heart and with all the fibers of his soul) only that which he personally lived, passed through himself. Everything else he simply understands at the level of the mind and it lies there as a dead weight. Do you feel the difference?
FIND A MENTOR, TEACHER, COACH
This is the most ideal option. Well, why do you need to waste your precious time, gain bumps, all the time go astray from the Path, when there is that person who has already gone through this, has great wisdom, the necessary knowledge and will be able to tell you an effective methodology for improving your life, to develop yours route of movement through life with minimal losses.
This person will teach you how to quickly filter information and leave only what YOU need. He will break your foundations and patterns, often false or overwhelming you, with him most likely it will be painful and tearful, scary and hard. And how else to quickly and productively kick a person out of his comfort zone, false dreams, fears and other entourage to which he is so accustomed? Alone, a person is hardly able to do this kind of work (we love and cherish ourselves so much and almost always do not want to notice what leads us to problems).
As you work on yourself, he will give you the support that you will need like a baby in the arms of a mother. With him, you will definitely go through the Path you need many times faster than alone. And yes, it is YOUR Way that you will walk.
Knowledge makes life easier, not burdensome. Let you have a better minimum set of knowledge, BUT it will be YOUR, suitable for your life pattern and effectively solving YOUR problems. And it would be great if you turned to a competent person for advice, instead of wandering around the Internet and books, experimenting on yourself.
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