2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This is already like a dogma - the psychologist does not give advice!
But about ANTI-recommendations, no one mentioned anything!
This means that you can legally do 😉
Today I want to give a list of anti-recommendations "How to stay insecure"?
1. Always remember that you can do better. Having done something, never praise yourself, it is better to look for mistakes;
2. Write to yourself in capital letters - to achieve success you need … until there is everything on the list, do not even think that you have managed to achieve something;
3. Be sure to ask everyone in a row what they think about you or your business. Others know better!
4. Keep your ideas, thoughts to yourself. Surely, someone has already thought up and done this before you.
5. Remember that family, work, children, friends, colleagues come first (introduce yours). Take care of yourself only when everything has already been done for them!
6. Do not deny requests to people. You should always be available and reliable!
7. Hearing rudeness in your address, try to convince the person that he is wrong! Prove that you are worth something!
8. Try to do everything yourself! Never ask for help. Otherwise, people will think that you are not doing it.
9. Criticize yourself more often! There is always something to be dissatisfied with, right?
10. Be sure to think out for people. If something seemed to you, be sure to wind yourself up and do not ask the person for his true opinion. Suddenly, it's even worse than what you came up with?
If you complete at least 6 out of 10 points, be sure, you will get 100% result:
- you will not find time for yourself;
- you will not feel satisfaction from what you are doing;
- you will not know what you need;
- you will not want something;
- you will not get what you want;
- you will not feel significant and respect yourself.
Well, are we moving according to this plan?
Or are we looking for others?)
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