2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"I am a horse, I am a bull, I am a woman and a man".
She has dowels, a drill and nails. He has a closet full of ultra-fashionable clothes.
She, with her tongue thrown over her shoulder, supports the family. He is lying on the couch looking for himself, talking on the phone for hours and crying out loud.
The Great Patriotic War claimed the lives of millions of men. A threefold burden fell on the woman: raising children, running a household and raising the country from ruins. In the name of survival, a woman forged a steel masculine character in herself. Children often saw their mother tired and irritated. The girls understood that hard labor was ahead. And the boys were clearly aware that everything rests on a woman.
In those years, there was practically no model of male behavior for growing boys. Mom from her son tried to raise a real man. However, the mother is the bearer of the Feminine identity. And she could only pass it on to her son.
In modern society, a serious confusion of Identity is visible - there are many effeminate men and masculine women.
Sly, mercantile gigolos who are not averse to riding through life on women's shoulders.
Straightforward, active, purposeful women, who put career, status and money in the first place.
Recently, the fashionable men's haircut was loose hair, gathered in a ponytail at the top of the head. Can you imagine a boy with this hairstyle in your childhood?
Inequality between men and women
After the deaths of millions of men in the Great Patriotic War, boys have become of great value. The society hovered that there were a lot of women, and a man should be cared for and cherished.
If a man has a mistress, they say with a smile: "Male". This fact testifies to the potency and male attractiveness. If a woman has a lover, she rushes after the contemptuous: "Fuck." And this speaks of licentiousness and base aspects of the soul.
It is accepted that a man may not help around the house, because he earns money. And if a woman earns money? He still may not help with the housework, because he is a man.
What requirements does society put forward for women and men?
Man:
1. Has a profession or business.
2. Earns money and supports his family.
3. Has an apartment and a car.
The list for men is larger financially. Now this list is presented to women as well. Parents try to educate their daughters in order to avoid humiliating dependence on their husbands.
Woman:
1. Faithful.
2. Loving.
3. Leads the household.
4. Gives birth, raises and brings up children.
5. Tolerate the tricks of the faithful: "Be smarter - be patient."
6. Pretends that he does not know about the adventures of his spouse - he will go crazy.
The list for women - in personal and relationship terms. Although the woman’s financial list is successfully fulfilled.
Women from time immemorial were called the weaker sex, and they pulled the burden of titans on themselves.
Maybe it's time to reduce the list of requirements for women?
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