Technology For Solving One Classic Query. Part 4. Final. "From Diamond To Diamond"

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

With this publication, I conclude a series of articles devoted to a brief presentation of readers' common work with one of the most popular psychological requests - requests for improving female-male relationships.

I describe specific work experiences and share helpful materials.

Immediately, I note the following: for client reasons, the term of work with this case was initially narrowed to one working month (the woman was leaving for a long trip). Accordingly, we conducted only 4 client sessions. But even this number of meetings was enough for the first stunning results.

Let me remind the reader of the line of the previous work. The first session was devoted to comprehending and working out the previous partner experience of this woman. The second is working with the basic figure of the father. The third is the study of parental introjects. And, finally, the fourth and final one (described in the presented material) is the polishing of a unique personal image.

I will name my recent publications. Those interested can find and familiarize themselves with the proposed technology in its entirety.

Part 1. Work and farewell to bad experiences of the past.

Part 2. Healing matrix algorithms.

Part 3. Working with maternal introjects.

And we will continue …

Having somewhat "repaired" the defining primary matrix of this particular person, we switched our attention from the inner foundations of the client to the uniqueness of her personal image.

It was important, firstly, how to clearly recognize and manifest its unique essence, and secondly, confidently present it to others. In this regard, I have practice.

“I am like a unique gift. Practice of successful presentation. / I'll cover it here.

1. First of all, as it should be in such cases, we devote a separate space and time to psychological practice. We retire and proceed to special research work.

2. Further, we are trying to look at ourselves with very accepting eyes, proceeding from the following message: in each of us, and in you in particular, there is a perfect Spark of God - a unique, valuable Gift - an exceptional one, unlike anyone else.

3. The next step … We answer ourselves to the essential existential question: what distinguishes you from all others, what makes you special, makes you stand out?

4. So we explore (and further recognize) the treasury of our Soul: "we dive deeper and find the pearls of the spiritual ocean." We get these treasures, get to know him.

5. Along the way, we mark (write down) our own findings, denoting - by prescribing or drawing our unique spiritual Gift.

6. Did you see it? Designated? Amazing! We gratefully accept these Gifts, re-appropriating them, making them an integral part. These treasures shone in you before - always, but for various reasons you “avoided” acquaintance with them, and “accidentally bumping into”, embarrassedly hid deeper, preferring to forget about them, so today you have found them again.

7. Now try to see your image with the treasure included. How are you yourself? Do you like it? That's great! Can you imagine how important you are in your own way for this world, how special for it?

8. Now, with respect to this unique representation, you can safely present yourself to those around you. You saw a MASTERPIECE in yourself - exclusive, amazing. And this MASTERPIECE is intended to become a decoration of the world and not otherwise.

9. But! For the impeccability of further communications, it is worth including such a perception not only in relation to oneself, but also to other loved ones: each of us contains a unique, unique masterpiece, and it is this personal representation that we are all amazingly beautiful.

But reinventing yourself and embracing yourself is only half the battle. It is also necessary tentatively, using a special technique, to prepare yourself for a new presentation to others, right? In this regard, in my videos there is another useful practice, at one time presented for use by Sergey Viktorovich Kovalev and recorded by me on the basis of a personal case. I'll leave it for the audience.

/ Both practices "I am like a unique gift" and "The practice of switching scenario behavior" will be posted in the attached videos on the resource. /

And now I will tell you how our short but meaningful work influenced the client's primary (but, hopefully, lasting) success in relation to the opposite sex

Of course, it is not only a matter of correctly structured work and the elaboration of determining mechanisms, it is in many respects in the extreme interest of the client in the best solution of the given request and in her inspired faith in her successful future. Nevertheless, the fact that she told at the end of our meetings is overwhelmingly convincing.

So, the day after our last session, the client went to a large corporate meeting arranged by her employer in the framework of international cooperation with foreign colleagues. At a creative, very beautiful meeting, there were many worthy representatives of the opposite sex - potential suitors and lovers. And there, at the evening, my client (I remind you that she is not young, middle-aged) became, without exaggeration, the QUEEN OF THIS BALL. Here's what she said …

“Me and my (mostly younger) girlfriends were sitting at the same table. But men, as if spellbound, came only to me. They seemed to be fascinated by something, drawn … The French, Italians, Romanians in broken English, but very persistently tried to meet and stay with me. I turned down many of them, but left my contacts to some. I was continuously complimented, invited to dance, smiled and courted, courted, courted. My friends unanimously repeated only one thing: "How do you do this ?!" I answered embarrassedly: "I don't know!"

It is on this expressive note that I will end the story of my recent case. Undoubtedly, the royal Ball of this woman was launched not by the Miracle, but by the highest mood of the heroine and her inspired readiness for a new romantic relationship.