2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The client told about the situation at the session:
A hacker wrote to her that, they say, I hacked your page, found a lot of compromising evidence, and if you want me not to expose you, pay me $ 500. And he added: I am a noble man - if you pay me, I will no longer blackmail you …..
I remembered another situation, the client said:
She drove into the courtyard through the barrier and it broke. It is clear business - automation. Nearby was the chairman of the partnership of this house, who scolded her for allegedly breaking this barrier (she just fell off on her)….
Another case:
A male client considers himself to be very noble, but at a family session, when I asked my question, "You are a man, and men tend to win women, to be such a" macho "- so why don't you try to win your wife again?" - nothing hesitated said: "Why doesn't my wife win me?" …..
Last case:
After the wedding, the client gave her word of honor to her husband: the property they bought together, in the event of a divorce, should be honestly divided in half - 50/50. And when they got divorced 8 years later and they had two young children, the husband recalled this agreement, which the client honestly agreed to fulfill if she had not come for a consultation. When the specialist had to explain that honesty must be extended to young children, she could not agree with this in the first sessions: how could it be - after all, I gave my word of honor that we would share 50/50?….
All these situations took place in Moscow and St. Petersburg. Today is the Day of Defense of the Fatherland, and I would like to express a wish to myself and appeal to all men:
Friends! The meaning and meaning of the word "nobility" originally arose in the relationship between a man and a woman, as one of the main qualities of a man. If the values of good and evil are innate qualities of a person, then nobility is acquired. Let us recall the category of chivalry and aristocracy in that true sense, when these categories were born: the Knight and his Beautiful Lady. Aristocrat from the word "aristos" is the best.
Therefore, when we say that "I am noble, but pay me $ 500" or "I am noble, but sometimes I allow a woman to be rude (change, betray), treat selfishly" - and at the same time we can be strong, passionate, decent, honest, attentive, caring, but we cannot call ourselves noble.
Therefore, today I would like to wish myself and all men: let us be noble in the literal sense of the word, or at least strive for this state. Believe me, it is not women who need this, but us men. We need not have nobility, but be noble. Believe me, this is a very resourceful state, and the devotion and loyalty of a woman to us, in this case, will be unlimited.
P. S. One of the main competencies of the 21st century, according to many advanced billionaires, along with others, is energy management. That is, in order to become a successful, wealthy and fulfilled man, it is simply vital for us to cultivate this quality - nobility. In other words, the energy of nobility (these advanced billionaires also highlight selflessness) generates success (not only monetary, but also harmony in the soul), which means mental and physical health, freedom, beauty and love.
I have long wanted to write about this….
Damian of Sinai
leadership coach, expert psychoanalyst, Head of the Center for Strategic Coaching and Psychotherapy "Innovation Values"
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