2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I was asked the question: "How to get rid of masculine qualities?"
I share my answer, maybe it will help women who are desperately fighting with them.
To get rid of some qualities, you first need to understand the following:
They are congenital or acquired due to upbringing and life experience
What is your inner motive? Than you are guided by inheriting masculine qualities
For a better explanation, I will describe a person by 4 elements of nature: water, fire, air and earth. They are all present in us, but we are talking about a certain predominance. For example, a fire-air woman in her energy will be similar to a man “I see the goal, I see no obstacles”, “we live one day”. The earth-water woman in her way of thinking resembles a prudent strategist. It's great when everything is in balance, and we show our elements in relation to situations, but this is not always the case. And in order to come to this, you need to learn to know yourself.
If we take the anatomy of the nervous system, then our internal impulses are divided into strong - weak, balanced - unbalanced, active - passive. A woman with a strong, unbalanced, active nervous system can build a business, manage complex processes, and be in time everywhere. And here it is better to give such physiology to a man, but what to do if she, i.e. a woman already born like that.
Why did I describe all this? To the fact that a woman can be born with qualities that are socially considered masculine. Here the emphasis is on the social norm. And if she is drawn to disassemble a car engine, then putting her behind embroidery or knitting, as a result, you will come across aggression. It is important for any person to "apply" himself where he is attracted. When energy goes in the wrong direction and in the wrong amount, a person gets irritated, angry and angry.
Ambush a strong-active-balanced woman to deal with the hearth, after a short period of time all household members will have a hard time. Unless, of course, the woman is engaged in the global reconstruction of the house and surroundings, leading the work teams.
Therefore, by her nature, physiological and individual psychological characteristics, a woman can possess the qualities that we are used to ascribing to men. In this case, she desperately needs to implement them. And it is better for her if she will apply them in her life and not try to remake herself.
We can also compete with men, challenge them. This desire is explained by a story that speaks of the absence of a woman as a person, an individual. For many centuries, women practically did not have the opportunity to express themselves, and only thanks to the courage of many historical personalities, we came to the conclusion that today we occupy the same place in society as men. However, we use what the man does. We copy it, inherit it. Yes, there are many examples where a woman as a student has surpassed a man-teacher in business, business management, way of thinking, and so on.
At the same time, we are talking about the fact that a woman nevertheless inherits, which means she has not come into contact with herself enough to know herself fully as a person, as a female self and begin to create in a more feminine way, having already had the opportunity to declare herself.
Given the reason for the acquisition of masculine qualities, now we need to understand how each of us manifests itself as a man. Here are a number of questions that will prompt you for analysis.
Why am I doing this? Can I do it differently? Do I consider making money a male responsibility? Do I allow myself self-realization through work? What is it for me to be a woman? Do I envy a man? Do I find a man's life easier? Do I think that true feminine qualities can only be manifested in motherhood and household? Am I experiencing some kind of injustice in what is allowed to men and women?
If you subconsciously envy the life of men, think that it is easier for them to live, that they do not need anything that you worry and worry about every day, then you do not want to accept a woman in yourself. You reject it. You are saturated with what you think will make your life easier, i.e. masculine qualities.
Work does not make a man out of a woman. Making decisions, responsibility also does not make a woman masculine. A woman is not a spineless person who does not have her own desires and opinions. She also has an inner core, willpower. She is personality and personality. And she can manifest all this in her manner, according to her nature.
Both women and men can do business, hunt and fish, fix cars, be hairdressers, fashion designers and do household chores. Moreover, each of them does it in their own way. They are both successful in this, but their style will be different.
Previously, only men could write books. It was believed that a woman was not given this. But women's writing is interesting and many men admit it.
What am I bringing this up to? To give up masculine qualities, first analyze what your inner motive is to use them. Perhaps what you consider to be masculine is very necessary for you for personal development, for the realization of talents and purpose, and even banal for life.
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