2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This is not a fairy tale yet! This is a saying …
Two men are walking through the desert, both are dragging a huge sack behind their backs, one with gold, the other with bacon. Day goes by, another, third … Finally
the starving gold bearer asks another man:
- Sell me some bacon, I'll pay you well.
- Goes, - he agrees, - just let’s arrange a trade in all
rules.
He gets comfortable, spreads his fat and starts yelling at full
throat:
- Ukrainian lard! More lard in sweets! Fly in !!
The gold bearer timidly asks:
- How much will you sell?
- A bag of gold for a kilo! - the seller of bacon answers without blinking.
- Why is it so expensive ?! - the gold-bearer is amazed.
- So and you go through the market, maybe you will find cheaper where, - offers
salesman, grinning….
The fairy tale itself.
The man dreamed of his Beloved! I wish I could meet her! Such …. That would capture the spirit, that it would not be better in the whole world! The same one! My only!
He walks through the desert of his Life and suddenly! Sees Her! Beloved!
The peasant's spirit was captured … he did not see her better in the whole world …
Yes! The same one! My only one!
He went up to Her and called her to go with him - through the desert of his Life!
And, oh, Miracle!
She said: I agree! Only…
The man was delighted! He began to dance and sing!
And then he asked her again: And what "only"?
- Just give me your hand, heart and all your life, - said the Same.
- Are you completely crazy, Woman? - the man was indignant. - Is the price too big?
- No, - the same answered calmly, - just right. And if it doesn't fit, then go through the desert of your Life - look for it cheaper.
And the peasant went alone through the desert of his Life … Many women met him on the way. Only they were all Not The Same.
But even Not Those wanted to get the same set from the man - his hand, heart and his whole life!
More and more often the man regretted that when he met Taya Sama he did not give her everything that she asked for at once …
His life has passed. In an unsuccessful search. He found both gold and silver … he went through fire, and water, and copper pipes …
Only I never met the One - the One.
Bitter tears flowed from his once beautiful eyes, but the River of Life does not turn back.
And every evening, falling asleep, the man thought:
- Eh, damn it … But she, the very same adequate self-esteem was formed!
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