Parental Rear. What's This?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

If we turn to the explanatory dictionary, then the word "rear" is used only in a military context. This is both the rear of the army and a part of the country with population and economic resources, which is outside the borders of hostilities. There is even a floating rear, the main function of which is the material and technical supply of the naval forces at sea.

The rear helps, serves everything necessary, ensures the integrity and safety, and also covers from behind.

Today I am writing about the parental rear. For a child, the world is divided into a family with people who are significant to him and into the outside world, which he comprehends and cognizes (kindergarten, school, developmental sections, friends, people on the street).

Sometimes, returning home is almost the same as returning from the combat zone to the rear. Accordingly, parents must provide the baby with certain resources. If a child has a reliable rear in the form of parents, he grows up very resilient. In this case, we are talking about the psychological rear. The parental home should be like a quiet haven where the child can relax, think about what is happening to him in life.

Let's consider the psychological rear in more detail.

This is when a person is accepted, given love, attention, and an interest in his life. The child should know that they are waiting for him at home, even to some extent they are preparing to meet him. Of course, the absence of criticism is one of the first places in the list of “psychological rear”. The little man is already bumping into her outside the house. It is insanely difficult for him to withstand it in the home front, from people whom he trusts very much.

Parents may not understand the child's reactions, his judgments, his way of life. It is important to take! Give the right to be what he is, with its pros and cons, mistakes and achievements, wrong, whims, desires, dreams. Accept that it can be as it "comes out" of your child. It is important not to discount everything “what your child is about”. He can be difficult, lonely, helpless; he does not always know what to do; sometimes he does not understand your rules and restrictions (does not see them logical from the point of view of his child's perception).

Each parent will make the life of their child easier if they learn to accept their child as he is. And most importantly, do not compare his situations and difficulties with your own, or with the lives of others. In this case, the child will feel somewhat abandoned to the mercy of fate.

Your children may be wrong, wrong, testing you. You have the right to educate them. At the same time, provide with their rear. Do not go into psychological violence in the form of “I don’t talk to you for 3 days”. Express your dissatisfaction, look for measures of deprivation with games, meetings with friends, etc., just do not deprive the child of emotional support.

A correctly created psychological rear of the house develops a stable personality in the child, a strong-willed character, adequate self-esteem, self-esteem, respect for oneself and others, and, of course, self-love.

And most importantly, remember that no matter how old your child is, he still needs this rear from time to time.