2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Case from practice (I tell with the permission of the client)
I worked with a client on request to increase her income by 2-3 times. Consulted according to the standard scheme. Motivation, fears, trauma … We worked with self-esteem.
And of course beliefs. To my surprise, there were few negative beliefs. The girl wanted money. I considered them cute and necessary and bringing joy. Everything is fine.
The client's life began to change. She got a job as a realtor in a good company. Three deals in the first month. The client is satisfied. Well, I'm happy too.
And suddenly, after the first successes, there was a sharp decline. Income began to fall. Customers come and go. No deals are being made. Everyone in the office gets income. But she is not. Why is that?
They began to figure out what was wrong.
And here's the belief they found. "All rich people are thieves." That's what dad said. And what dad said is right. Daddy won't say bad things. Moreover, the daughter does not think so. But the father's influence is strong.
And she wants to be honest. Never in my life took someone else's. And here, with the advent of money, a connection was formed devoid of any logic. The rich are thieves. She grows rich, becomes a thief. Here is such a strange inversion.
And from what appeared (honestly earned!) The first thousand dollars subconsciously manifested the fear that she could become a thief and she would be condemned. First of all, parents.
Negative beliefs and attitudes toward the rich are common among clients with financial problems.
"The rich steal."
I don't know if they steal or not …
Maybe someone's expensive things disappear from the house and they suspect of this the millionaire's neighbor, who made the master keys and now comes in to profit. I don't have a millionaire neighbor. Perhaps some millionaire came to me, but seeing the restraint in the situation, he left, dirtyly scolding the hostess for the fact that a golden toilet was not installed in the house. The cat dear to my heart (in my opinion, a golden creature of 3.5 kilos in weight) did not attract him.
Maybe there are not honest people among them. But not all. As well as among the poor. One can argue about this for a long time.
Another thing is important. As long as you hate rich people, you will not become rich. Because how can you want to become someone you hate?
If you want to change your financial situation for the better, then think about what rules you live by regarding money. What do you think of rich people. What do you think about work. Also, remember what your parents said about wealth and money. The influence of parents is very strong
Consider how these beliefs affect your life.
Analyze your negative beliefs. And come up with new beliefs and new rules to help you find the income you want.
New beliefs can be used as affirmations. This method is not quick, but effective.
Or you can come to a consultation and work them out with more effective methods.
At the same time, work with self-esteem, trauma and fears and other reasons that prevent you from becoming rich (and at the same time even) people.
Correct beliefs for you!
Wealth easy and honest for you!
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