The Law Of Balance. How It Works In Relationships With Friends. And How Between Children And Parents

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Universal Rules of Happiness

Let's start with the First

1. The Law of Balance

Pay attention and time, and do only what benefits, first of all, YOU. The # energy expended should bring energy in return.

Energy is measured by emotions, money, time and much more.

Find what you want to get to compensate for the energy you expended. For Balance.

And remember.

Actively solving the problems and problems of others, especially when you were not asked, while receiving no return and nothing in return, you will always feel dissatisfaction, lack of energy and what is called Deceived Expectations.

Moreover, when you break the “take-give” balance too much, the relationship with the one with whom this balance is broken simply ends. For the second person begins to feel a strong sense of guilt for the very disturbed balance.

The same law works where the husband left.

Girls who "reboot" about their husbands, and then do not understand where and why their husbands leave …

Reflect.

There is something about it

✅ 1. Conduct an inspection of your relationship. Friends, girlfriends, husbands, colleagues.

IMPORTANT!!!

This law works differently with parents and children. I will write separately.

✅ 2. Write about what you found especially interesting. If you do not mind, of course)))

✅ 3. Be Happy

Further.

Part Two

The Law of Balance Between Parents and Children

In Part Of Times, I wrote about the correct flow of energy in relationships with people at the same Level of Hierarchy.

I will also write separately about the Law of Hierarchy soon.

So that's it.

The situation is completely different when it comes to the relationship between Parents and Children.

In them we learn basic "give" and "receive".

And with a good and correct flow - parents give us Love, and we just take it. And we can only give what we received from our Parents - our Life and Love to our children. But never to parents. There is no need to even try.

And when we begin to try to return what, in principle, we cannot return, that very #Feeling of Guilt arises, about which I have written more than once.

BUT!

Parents - this is not an option when the relationship can come to naught and end. Parents for life. Parents.

The very best that could be for us.

Like us, the best Children that could be given to them.

And they are worthy of Respect.

Respect is exactly how we can balance what we received from our Parents

Also with regard to Children.

We just give to children. Requiring nothing in return.

Our children will give back what they received to their children. And our task is to make sure that they have something to give.

But when parents begin to demand a "return on investment" from their children, it disrupts the correct flow of energy.

And there are many feelings and emotions that we cannot understand and explain. And also a breakdown, because they all go to "closing holes in the balance."

If you have any questions - ask

There are many nuances that are difficult to describe in one post.

And you guessed it - a healthy relationship with Parents is the Second Rule of Happiness from our # 12_Rules_Happy

✅ 1. Conduct an inspection of your relationship with your parents.

✅ 2. Call them or write and tell your parents how much you appreciate and appreciate them for the most important gift in the world - Life!