2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In the previous article, I talked about the fact that your sexual compatibility with your partner is not affected by whether you were someone else before you started dating. That is, whether you have had sexual experience or not.
In continuation of this topic, I decided to write about how, then, to understand that you and your partner really suit each other not only on the mental, but also on the physical level, that is, whether there is sexual compatibility between you or not. So, here's how it can be easily understood:
You do not feel any discomfort or pain during intercourse
That is, everything suits you in the size of each other and none of you blames the other that, for example, "you are too big and it hurts" or "you have it too wide there and I don't feel anything" - there is simply no such thing. And this means that you can quite physically satisfy each other, which is the basis of sexual compatibility of partners.
You feel completely comfortable undressed and naked in front of each other
This is very important, because if you are constantly shy and complex in front of your partner, then there can be no question of any sexual compatibility. But if you consider the naked body of your partner to be the best, desirable and sexy for you, and this is mutual, then your sex will also be excellent.
And regarding some of your "clamps" or complexes, it is better to laugh together at various uncomfortable moments in bed, which sometimes happen in everyone, and do not be ashamed of them. And if that's exactly what you do, that's great.
You just love to kiss, and your hug is as intimate and pleasant for both of you as sex itself
Therefore, even if you are not making love, you still just always feel good together.
You know how to properly "warm up" each other
You like how to bring your partner to the climax, and enjoy the orgasm yourself. You can engage in both gentle and unhurried, and rough, "animal" sex, and all this is really just for your joy. And also you often indulge each other with oral sex.
Your sex happens naturally, that is, according to your joint desire, and not under the coercion of one of the partners or, for example, simply out of a sense of duty or guilt for something to a partner
Your needs and desires are really taken into account and taken into account - this is important. Therefore, you are not offended if your partner, for example, because of fatigue or lack of mood, refuses you during the initiation of sex, since you know that in any case he still considers you to be a very sexual partner. Of course, if these refusals are not repeated with "enviable" regularity. After all, this is already a reason to think and talk frankly about this with each other.
None of you even accidentally called each other some other name during sex
And all because your partner is the only one who is on your mind, especially during sex with him. After all, you don't even want to imagine that you can have sex with someone else besides your partner. And most importantly, you know that your partner perceives and treats you the same way. This is real sexual compatibility. This is real happiness … And if you have the same, then love and take care of each other. After all, believe me, you are very lucky. Good luck to you!
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