2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Not all women strive for a serious relationship.
There are many who are in search of an easy and passionate connection that does not imply obligations.
A one-time event or a long-term relationship in this format - in any case, you need to follow certain rules that will ensure your pleasure and safety.
And right away, the first point:
Safety
If the man with whom you are going to meet has no credit of trust (this is not your old acquaintance and not even the acquaintance of your acquaintances), choose a neutral territory for your first meetings.
If you invite him to your place, you will feel more confident in your apartment. You will know where your protective equipment is (no, this is not about condoms). You are the mistress here. However, an unknown person will recognize your address.
On its territory, you will keep your place of residence a secret. But in an emergency, it will be difficult for you to escape and protect yourself. He's the boss here.
Therefore, the best option is a hotel
Both are on equal terms. There are people around. There are surveillance cameras that will record your companion.
Tell your loved one where you are going and with whom. Leave your contacts and addresses. Keep in touch. Agree on a code word or alarm if something goes wrong.
Keep your phone close to you.
Think about your health. Keep track of how the man is aware of the means of contraception, whether he is ready to use them, how he will react to your request to show a certificate of the absence of STDs, etc.
Sex, passion and feelings are wonderful. But safety and life should be more important.
Respect
Even if you are not going to start a family with this person, get to know him minimally. Check its adequacy - this is even more relevant to the previous point.
What is he?
How does he treat you? Does he listen to your requests?
How will he react to your desire to spend time at the hotel?
Does he show tenderness and sympathy?
If you do not want mechanical sex, after which they will silently show you the door, but want sensual lovemaking, in which both people will enjoy, pay attention to all these points.
Make sure there are people interested in you. They wish you good. They are trying for you.
Many men are very happy when a woman is looking for sex without obligation. It seems to them that in this case one can be anything. They will still be "given". And every time they will "give", as there is a whim and desire.
But no. A relationship with sex without commitment is also a relationship. In which a woman should not lose self-esteem and make compromises with herself.
A wish
Choose a man who will really attract and turn you on. May you like everything about him.
His voice. Arms. Touches. Smell. Lips. Hair on his body. Clothes, briefs, accessories and penis uniforms.
For real pleasure in sex, mutual sympathy for each other is necessary.
Goodbye honey
However, with sympathy, it is important not to overdo it. Yes, sex without commitment can turn into relationships and marriage. However, always remember how and why you started this event.
Agree to sex without obligation only with the man with whom at the moment you do not want more. Which you perceive as a temporary option. With whom you can say goodbye at any time.
This will save you from love suffering and emotional dependence.
It is important to take into account that despite the fulfillment of all points and rules,
sex without commitment is a risk.
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