2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Most adults dislike learning for three reasons:
1. We believe that the "study" period ends when we graduate from the university
The modern social model insists that kindergarten-school-university-work is a solid, powerful ladder that leads us to success. Nevertheless, if you are reading this article, the question of dislike for learning somehow looms on the horizon.
2. We associate learning with memorizing information …
… when in fact people who are successful are those who are able to critically assess the value of the information absorbed in the context they need. Let the school instill in us cramming, this does not mean at all that learning is the recording of gigabytes of information on the “blank” of the brain.
3. It seems to us that we need to learn in a certain way, but we do not know how, and, accordingly, we do not know what to undertake …
… or the traditional teaching method as it appears to us is unacceptable to us. My husband has the ability to mentally "look" into all kinds of technical mechanisms. At the same time, he never liked to read and write, and the spelling of my betrothed, in truth, is lame. By trying to learn new skills through books, my husband is doing himself a disservice: he clogs his human curiosity, trying to fill his head with alien sayings, while repressing the natural craving for knowledge.
How can you still love learning?
First, you need to understand that we perceive the world in different ways, and the book method, which is the basis of classical education, is just one of the paths leading to mastery
Ask yourself what kinds of leisure activities inspire you. If it’s viewing fun videos, chances are that informal instructional videos will help you get the job done. Combining an informative podcast with a morning jog or ironing is a great way to soak up the base without putting in a draconian effort.
Secondly, you need to focus on practice
It's fun to practice! Memorizing theory can be comfortable as this is what we were taught to do as children. However, solid theorization can be a way of avoiding real actions that lead to tangible results.
After studying the theory, analyze how you can build a house on the foundation that you have built in the halls of your mind. I tell you: analyze, do not imagine, because the main difference between analysis and dreams is that the former leads to results, while the latter draws you into the construction of ephemeral castles.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes. I always advise my students: love mistakes. When we make mistakes in improving a skill, and this mistake is deliberately noticed by us or by our trusted teacher, we minimize the risk of making this assessment later. Mistakes are great! Let's remember that the world is not black and white, and get the pleasure inherent in every person from the process of cognition.
And third, cultivate critical thinking
Do not think that the opinion of the classics, philosophers, educators and their friends is more valuable than yours. The ability to think over ideas, question them and synthesize your own conclusions is especially necessary for a person who lives in an intellectual era.
An additional good effect that comes with the development of critical thinking is "taking out the trash" from the head and getting rid of material excesses, which allows you to redirect the previously occupied pieces of the budget in the necessary direction.
Research in the field of neuroplasticity shows that in order to achieve mastery, a person needs to spend 10,000 hours paying direct attention to the subject that he studies “Game Master”). Having thought about the comfortable time that you can devote to the skill on a daily basis, it will not be difficult for you to calculate how long it will take you to become a master of your field.
But don't be alarmed! The more you dig into one area, the more you begin to notice the sameness in all aspects of human existence. And this is a great bonus: by studying one specialty in all details along with the development of critical thinking, we simultaneously master the related sciences, and thanks to them - in contact with them.
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