2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Today is my trust day. He summarized the entire week, in which plans collapsed and goals were achieved with great difficulty. This morning, with another cancellation of plans, I trusted the circumstances and went for a walk (for a couple of hours, just to reboot). Everything inside seemed to relax and at the same time filled with new strength and energy. Someone breathed out inside me. An inner voice said: "Well, finally."
What have I noticed?
- As soon as I allowed myself to trust not my plans, but something that is outside me and not controlled by me, everything began to develop more successfully.
- To succumb to the will of fate, circumstances, and not continue to bend your line and achieve your plans with all your efforts, means to notice what is offered in return. Often, something better is immediately suggested. However, you need to see and be able to notice.
- After freeing my mind from the planned plan, many new ideas came to me. Especially when I was not doing anything: doing in non-doing.
- To postpone things, not to continue to test your will further, and thereby save yourself from anxious experiences, stress associated with the lack of implementation of plans.
When our plans collapse, we get upset, angry, we can engage in self-flagellation. And you just need to listen to the circumstances. They did not just appear. Globally, we need these circumstances for something more significant than the previously conceived plan. This often happens, analyzing the situation, we understand that what seemed like a huge stick in the wheel of our plans, in the end brought us good. Rather, through this "stick" we got the benefit.
Trusting fate, the Almighty, the world, the universe (everyone calls it differently) is to enable what is to happen to happen. Letting something happen and happen to you
It is important to understand that even when praying to God for a lottery ticket, at least this ticket must be bought and the numbers must be entered. I do not call for abandoning plans at the first difficulty or not building them at all. I’m talking about those times when a series of events tells us: "you shouldn't do this" or "not now, try later", or "if you add new experience to the plan, it will be more successful."
Trust your feelings. Not that our obsessive desire to come up with many ways to implement plans dictates.
Trust the circumstances.
Trust the care of relatives and friends, who can say such phrases as: “it’s not the time yet,” “not today,” “something better awaits you,” “maybe something saved you from something,” etc. We often get angry with these phrases, because in our minds the idea of the implementation of plans. The trust inherent in us in the first year of our lives applies not only to people, but to everything that happens to us.
Many people have situations when work is being done, but something is wrong, then the file cannot be saved, then the formula will not be tightened, then a colleague distracted and as a result a mistake was made, while the coffee spilled in the morning, the son tore off a button on his shirt, and it's time to go out to school. And then you leave everything and go to drink tea with cookies, you understand that let everything be as it will be (a very useful setting in such a situation) and somehow everything is getting better. This "as it will be, so it will be" is the trust in what is happening.
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