2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It is possible to spend many hours in close cooperation with a person. Both have the same goal of helping and answering questions. We reach for the solution, we almost touch it, but do not reach it. At such moments, fairy tales, parables, essays are born, which are of a fabulous nature.
Anecdotes, aphorisms, fairy tales, parables - one of the ways to convey, tell, explain, clarify, bypass internal resistance.
Once a man met with his faith. He was glad to have this meeting, since all his life he had wanted to meet her.
- Vera, why throughout my whole life you have never been ?!
- How was it not? When was it not? Vera asked in amazement.
- In my youth, I always wanted to be an airplane pilot, I believed that I would be one, I dreamed of flying in the clouds through many countries and cities …
- AND? Why didn't you become a pilot?
- Circumstances so happened that I did not go to university, and I had to go to study where there was an opportunity.
- Well, and when else I was not?
- I wanted to marry a girl like my grandmother.
- Why didn't you get married?
- Circumstances so happened that it was time to get married, and I chose the woman who was next to me.
- And when else I was not there?
- I really wanted a position in the development department.
- Why don't you work there?
- Circumstances developed so that another employee from another department also applied for this position. He was more suitable for her, and I did not apply for my candidacy.
“You see, you believe in circumstances, not in me. I was always there, and I really wanted you to see me, so that you would allow me to constantly live in you. But every time, circumstances prevented you from seeing me in yourself, allowing me to live and be in you. You opened the door so that I went outside every time you wanted something, but you closed the door to me for many, many locks, when circumstances arose. In the end, you got what you really truly believed in, and you believed in the circumstances.
- But then what should I have done?
- Believe, wait and not lose your faith.
Believe that if you have an idea for something, then you can implement it. Not everyone comes up with your idea. There are like-minded people, but they may have a different style of execution of your idea. Turn your dreams into action. Do something for that dream. Believe that ideas don't just spring up. If they have arisen, then they can be realized, give them the opportunity to exist.
If you are running your project, write down all thoughts, ideas on this project and do it. Try it. Perhaps you can already implement something, something will be difficult to implement, but you will not be able to implement something, or the time for implementation will come later. Of course, a lot does not come at once, many have to be worked on for many years. In our idea, everything seems easier than in reality. And there will always be those who will instill in you uncertainty, weaken your faith. However, this is not a reason to postpone your ideas in the section “this has always been my dream and will remain there”.
And remember! It often happens that the most unreal and condemned (if you ask the opinions of others) eventually starts up and is in demand, and the simplest is postponed due to lack of interest in it.
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