2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
One now famous writer, when he was young, dreamed of a new car. He dreamed of her out loud. To which his mother over and over again repeated one single phrase: "Son, your old car is still in our garage."
In order for something new to appear in our life (and this is not only about material things), first there must be a free space in it. And in order for a free space to appear, something must leave our life. If you want new, let go of the old.
Here I want to offer you an easy way to create a void in the literal sense of the word.
Step 1: you need to be clear about what you want to attract into your life. It can be money, things, people, time, a new job, or a new occupation
Step 2: within 30 days it is necessary to get rid of one or more unnecessary things in the house
When you start this process, you will see things that are long overdue to just throw away.
You will also see things that you borrowed from friends or acquaintances, but were delayed to return (books, for example).
You will also see good things and realize that some of them will bring more joy and benefit somewhere else. For example, a straw lamb is much more appropriate in a child care center than in a corner on a shelf. And the 10th set of donated and completely new mugs will be useful, for example, to the participants of your trainings (it is more soulful to drink tea from beautiful mugs than from plastic cups).
Some things are completely in your power to give a second life - to sell or give to the one who needs them more.
Step 3: During these 30 days, you need to keep a diary - every day, write down what thing left your home. When you finish this project, you will be surprised at the amount and amount of unnecessary things. And you will also be able to imagine how much free space has appeared in your home
Step 4: every time you take away another thing, mentally invite what you need into this empty space
It's no secret that the problem for many people is that they just can't let go of the past. A person mentally returns there all the time, lives there. And at this time, the present slips through your fingers, minute by minute. And the desired future turns more and more into never.
This simple technique starts the process of clearing the past. Sets the person up to stop clinging and start letting go. Adjusts thinking, adjusts the soul.
In addition, you will start to like your home more and more, in which it will become more spacious every day.
For radical people, throwing away 30 items in one day is also possible!
Personally, I preferred the slow process. After all, every thing at one time was valuable, served faithfully, and, perhaps, simply reminded of some period of life or a person. Some things are worth saying goodbye to.
In any case, it's up to you! Good luck!
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