2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
One of my friends, who is in an active search for a heartfelt friend, asked me (as a specialist psychologist) to outline a list of useful recommendations regarding online dating on newfangled virtual portals in order to more successfully carry out these searches. I answer the request …
Psychological instruction for a virtual love search)
Or how do you find a partner on Tinder?
1. And I would start with this …
It is very important (initially, in advance) to understand: what kind of man are you looking for? By drawing a desired image for yourself and launching a search for it.
This can be done literally point by point:
a) imagining the chosen one, b) by drawing a happy, expected image (graphically, like a picture), c) prescribing in a separate list the necessary qualities of the man of his dreams, d) drawing up a map of desires, in the center of which is fulfilled love (you and your future love partner), e) visualizing the desired picture.
2. It is no less useful to imagine, analyze and understand a happy mirror-like situation: who does the man you are looking for dream about - what kind of darling does he see next to him? By answering the questions asked, you will be able to complement your image to the complete fulfillment of the request.
This can be done as follows:
a) imagine your chosen one, b) sit him opposite, d) describe it well, e) and now try to enter the image (designate yourself as the man of your dreams, become him for a while, sit on his chair), f) look from his position at yourself-real in love, romantic look, g) try to understand what attracts this person to you, what kindles him, attracts, h) as well as what makes general partner happiness realized and possible?
Having received the necessary answers, consider them for further, as useful, resource knowledge.
3. As the next point of my recommendations, I would specifically note the following …
When going to Tinder or other similar dating portals, try to maintain the necessary restraint in the early stages of a romantic acquaintance so as not to fall into deceptive love networks. Remember: in a romantic, heartfelt space, there is a myriad of unsurpassed master tempters - charming daffodils, gigolo, gigalo and so on; ladies thirsty for love - their goldfish, happy and lucky catch.
Observe prudence, caution!
4. Then I would say so …
“Dear Ladies, your inner, spiritual baggage is a precious, true treasure - do not waste it too much time on untested and inconsistent men. Agree: for all the romance of this kind of portals, this is a vast mass platform that allows people who are completely alien to each other to communicate, the inconsistency with which you will not immediately notice …
Remain mindful: observe, manifest, explore!"
5. And in order not to waste invaluable time on premature and unnecessary meetings, take a closer look at the interlocutor not only in the correspondence, but also at the stage of the telephone dialogue. This will significantly reveal the speaker to the second person.
One of the greats remarked very subtly: the voice is a reflection (picture) of our soul. Listen to the interlocutor, his voice (timbre, manner, diction) will tell you a lot …
Do not skip this important stage - the period of telephone dialogue!
6. It is very important to take into account not only the human "wrapper" (the photos presented for review, social statuses and purely external achievements), but the essential manifestation of the personality, starting from the fulfilled history of a person, his actions, orientations and choices. This is what you deal with next, which is the true essence of man.
7. And the last thing: before letting yourself go into a love search, tune in not to a difficult, difficult exam, but a useful and exciting task. Remember the well-known formula: what do you call a ship, so will it float? Let's call it competently: not a test, but an adventure with the ability to find your goals.
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