2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
We create meanings that help us live.
Get up early in the morning and drink coffee, because you can't wake up without it.
Husband to cook breakfast so that he remembers well at home.
Combining three colors in your bow is more tasteless.
Coming up with schedules and schedules is an indicator of a busy life.
Run on business in order to have time for everything necessary for "happiness".
Buying flowers at home and baking pies, because this is about comfort and warmth, but at home it should be just like that.
Know why, why and where.
Be in love. With pain. And a little bit not as we would like.
Not to love. With emptiness. Knowing that this is not the main thing.
Be together. Be separate. Not to be.
We seek meaning in every movement.
He gives us hope that someday it will be consistently good.
And for a while, these meanings keep us afloat. We smile and fall asleep in our bed with satisfaction.
And then the day comes when your meanings simply “don't work”. Do not make life easier. Doesn't bring joy.
Reality tears them to shreds every day.
And you are more and more zealous holding on to the once-born hope, forcing yourself, pushing it into the "proven" experience, into the "true" knowledge about yourself and what you "need."
Only from this life becomes hell.
The intervals "good" are getting smaller. And despair and apathy drag into the desert "everything is meaningless."
The thought of letting go of hope, stopping struggling, going beyond the created meanings is terrifying.
I will collapse …
I will collapse.
I will collapse!
And yes, you will have to collapse and spend some time in ruins. Peering into the debris that will fill your space inside and outside.
Meander.
Wake up with no hope.
Stand unsupported.
Live without knowing how to live.
Noticing that the world continues to exist and that something happens in it every second..
This is how everything works: to create a new one, the old must fall apart, collapse, leave …
FEARFULLY.
HURT.
HARD.
And of course, the darkest time is before dawn.
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