Jealousy, Or How Jealous Wives Can Be Wrong

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Jealousy OR Jealous Wives Might Be Wrong.

Nine times out of ten, the jealousy of the wives is justified.

Because men are such a people who most often are not averse to hitting on those girls who show them their sympathy or gladly accept male attention. However, a small percentage of mistakes in jealous wives do happen. That often leads to the emergence of acute conflict situations even in those couples where there were no special difficulties before that moment. After that, the spouses come for a consultation with a psychologist. I will tell you a few such remarkable stories from the practice of my work.

Twin Attack.

Inna, a wife of thirty, looking at the photographs of her husband taken at work during meetings and corporate events, began to notice that the same employee is almost always located next to her husband. The employee was young and pretty. The wife, of course, began to be jealous of her husband and repeatedly arranged preventive talks for him. The husband denied everything, referring to the fact that the management is always in charge of the seating and that he, as the chief lawyer, turns out to be seated next to the head of the logistics department, there is nothing strange. The wife continued to get irritated and boil. She very well remembered the appearance of the alleged competitor, and then, one day, she accidentally met her in a shopping mall. The jealous wife decided not to miss the perfect chance to talk face to face with what she thought was her husband's mistress. Therefore, blocking her path, she spoke in a harsh tone to the girl about how ugly it was to leave the family of someone else's husband.

I will say right away: the girl turned out to be the identical twin of the husband's work colleague, to whom the wife was jealous. But the jealous wife did not know this! Even the husband himself did not know that his colleague had such a sister. Therefore, when an innocent girl tried to laugh it off about the fact that “you are confusing me with someone, I don’t know your husband at all, I don’t understand what it is about,” the wife quickly lost her temper and began to beat the innocent girl with a handbag on the head. The guards of the shopping complex came running, my wife was detained. In the course of her dialogue with the girl, the situation cleared up. They called my husband, he arrived with a colleague. Her innocently injured sister, as compensation, was presented with expensive perfume, and a married couple came to my conversation to eradicate jealousy.

Family psychologist Andrey Zberovsky

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