Why Is It So Difficult With A Man?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Have you ever thought about something without which it is impossible to build any relationship, I mean understanding? And neither understanding, which is based on their own expectations, desires, and at the same time has nothing to do with reality, but about the present. Often women say that it is difficult for them to build relationships with men, because they (men) do not want and cannot understand them.

This statement has a very ancient history, and in many respects corresponds to reality. Yes, it is extremely difficult for men to understand women and this is a fact. At the same time, women themselves are far from always ready to understand and accept men. In reality, it is very simple to understand a man, as well as to build a relationship with him. To do this, you just need to become more attentive to some points in your communication and behavior.

A man most often uses linear logic, while women think in images, this is the main difference that can well be overcome.

Man, ladies are often accused of lack of emotionality. In certain situations, a woman expects a completely different reaction from a man than she receives. This happens when something unpleasant happened in a woman's life, and she needs emotional support (telling her that she is good, that everything will pass, and so on, depends on the situation).

A man most often in a similar situation begins to look for a solution, while what he says may be correct, but a woman wants something completely different. And there is a resentment in the woman, and then the thought that the man does not understand her. The woman feels pretty bad at the same time.

He doesn't understand how the woman wants him to react. But the solution is very simple. At the end of her story about troubles, a woman may well say about her desires: “I want you to hug me, take pity on me,” or take some action at the request of the woman. A man will naturally fulfill such a request to his woman, and she will receive what she expected and wanted from him. Agree, if you build communication in this way, then negative feelings will decrease.

Another point that is often discussed during consultations is male refusals. Often women cannot understand on the basis of what a man can say “no”. Usually ladies are perplexed: "What is it?" The thing is that a man is rational and, in most cases, he has developed a choice-refusal skill. In other words, a man knows for sure that if you choose something, then you will have to give up something, there is no other way in life.

For women, rejection is almost always quite difficult. Hence, a misunderstanding arises, add to this that often men do not explain their refusal. For them, the reason is obvious, but for a woman this is far from always the case. In such situations, it is very helpful to ask the man about the true reasons for his refusal. He will explain everything to his woman for sure, thereby restoring understanding.

Otherwise, the woman begins to explain to herself the reasons for the refusal of the man, and the woman usually does not have problems with fantasy. And, therefore, the conclusion that a man does not love her will be the most harmless.

Women may well be indignant and tell me that they do not agree to be the first to explain something, or ask a man something, what is your will. But think about this, firstly, a man cannot read your thoughts, and secondly, is it more important for you to maintain your position, which does not bring the desired result, or to build a warm, high-quality and healthy relationship?

Live with joy!

Anton Chernykh.