2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
PSYCHOLOGICAL PORTRAIT OF VLADIMIR ZELENSKY
Recently I learned the personal history of V. Zelensky in an interview with D. Gordon.
Zelensky does not speak and does not tell the whole truth about his childhood and youth. Something is conscious, something is unconscious.
“… Due to the fact that the climate of Mongolia did not suit his mother, 4-year-old Vova and his mother returned to Krivoy Rog. And my father worked in Mongolia for 20 years. He was a recognized highly qualified specialist, a workaholic. And what, besides work, did Vova's father do in Mongolia? A healthy man in his 30s? Although, this does not greatly affect the angle of the psi analysis. In addition, at the expense of mistresses and lovers, marriage is only strengthened. Continues to exist in functional roles.
In fact, Vova grew up without a father. He kind of is. Everything is in the head, everything decides. But he is not geographically next to his son. And this is the main mistake of Vova's father. In such conditions, it was not possible to completely spoil the will of his son. The psychological pressure is not strong enough to make the son comfortable and obedient.
The main values from the father: workaholism and one WIFE. Divorce is nonsense. Presumably because of the "What will people say" attitude.
“What will people say” is used correctly in interviews. Those. for father and son it is important "What people say."
Other values that Zelensky spoke about were taken from grandparents and mothers.
For the fact that the father was not there, resentment is formed. BIG. There is no trusting relationship. There are complaints.
In addition, the father prohibits Zelensky from clowning and joking. Humor and laughing are one of the types of psychological defenses. When the soul of a small child is unbearably painful, sometimes the psyche chooses a way to laugh at the situation, to joke. It's fun … and the pain is less severe. The person remains psychologically healthy.
And since Vova is very good with logical thinking, the jokes turn out to be very funny.
This pisses off the father. For such a son's behavior "in front of people" is not just a shame. It's a shame!
At the age of 16, Zelensky takes an exam, according to which he can leave for Israel. The father did not allow it. Vova wants to enroll in MGIMO and it is necessary to "resolve the issue", but the father refuses because of "What will people say." The psychological benefit of the father: “find out that you cannot do without me, you are zero”, “I will punish you, because you do not obey me.” And, perhaps, the deliberate "do it yourself" benefit. But you can't be a clown! It is a shame "in front of people." It's a shame.
With a sharp mind, logic, the ability to survive without the protection of his father, Zelensky becomes the country's main comedian. (But protection was so necessary in the 90s … + offense). THE MAIN PSYCHOLOGICAL BENEFIT OF A SON: the father will be ashamed “in front of people”. It's a shame.
Children do not care on the basis of what feelings they feel connected with their parents. Feelings are an emotional charge. It is the energy that drives life.
You can really hate your parents or love … Be afraid or trust … Get angry or have a warm relationship. Knowing that your father will be ashamed. The father will burn with shame. And I will not do as you said, because you missed a little in parenting. And the knowledge that with every successful joke I am infuriating my father, gives tremendous strength, energy to move towards success. Evil dad.
- There will be no clowns in our family! I said!
- Yes, I don't give a fuck …
Not surprisingly, Zelenskiy could become president. It is not a profession that makes a person successful. The best in what they do. And genetics, ancestral memory, sharp mind and logic, workaholism; values that are sacred to Vova - would make him the best in any business he would undertake.
Just for the psyche it was in KAIF to be a comedian. First, the soul doesn't hurt at all. Second, the shame-based connection with the father.
From a person I trust, I know the story when V. Zelensky recorded a video for a girl who had cancer and really wanted to see him. In the video, he addressed her by name and tried to raise her faith in herself.
He did it just like that, because he was asked. Therefore, I believe that Vladimir lives and tries to adhere to the values that he spoke about in his interview.
Trusting my female intuition, I will vote for V. Zelensky. For the first time I felt a sense of hope for Ukraine. Was not!
And what? Circus in our country for a long time:))) SO let the country's main comedian run it:)))
I wish you success and fulfillment!
Psychologist, coach, Double Anna.
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