Women's Energy

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

When you hear the word "woman", what is the first picture that comes to your mind? Something gentle and airy, a graceful beauty with golden curls, a chiseled figure and a sweet smile? Or an ageless aunt in a greasy robe (I wonder if there are still such in real life)? Or a big letter "Ж" on the toilet door? Or a twitchy mother with several children? Or a creature with silicone lips and breasts that looks like a mix of fish and a rubber doll?

Before I was 14 or 15 years old, I really regretted that I was not born a boy. It seemed to me that being a boy is much easier and easier, you can run faster, easily climb construction sites and trees, fight on a par with the boys, behave the way you want, and not like “decent girls walk with small steps, not meter jumps, like you". Now you will not surprise anyone with wide shoulders, narrow hips and a foot size of 39, most of the models are like that, and in the 70s the girls were of completely different proportions, narrow-shouldered, steep-hip, with small legs and arms. People like me, clumsy and with short hair, were called "boys", and it was not clear, but is this, in fact, good or bad?

Gender education of that era very clearly indicated what boys and girls should do, who should make birdhouses and stools, and who should ferment cabbage and sew aprons, and it doesn't matter that not every boy managed to hold a hammer in his hands, but some girls did not understand how to build a pattern. As the saying goes, "ice cream for children, flowers for baba, and in no case should they be confused." Further - more, since you were unlucky, and you were born a girl, your task is to manage the household, and you should with great joy and pleasure wash floors, dishes, wash and cook. If you don't want to - I'm sorry, you had to be born a boy, then no one would have made such demands on you. Well, it is clear that the most important thing in a woman's life is the happiness of motherhood, and if, for some reason, you cannot engage in reproducing your own kind (the phrase “you don’t want to” did not exist in the vocabulary), then from you there is no particular sense.

It was only later that the era of business women began, balancing between making money and washing dishes, suffering from the fact that they had to do everything themselves, while in childhood they said that “a man should make money”, tormented by a sense of guilt towards children, because they really do not have enough time and who are totally unable to “loosen their grip” for fear that then everything will fall apart and crumble, and they have been collecting everything for so long and piece by piece. Of course, there was another type of women, those who “got married successfully,” in the sense that they did not need to earn money, the husband provides for all of them, and they only need to give birth to offspring, look good and not challenge their husband's opinion. It's funny that frustration overtook both the first and the second, the first from fatigue, and the second from the inability to escape from the inner emptiness.

Personally, the thought that being a girl was probably not so bad came to me at the age of 15, when I realized that if I couldn't do some hard physical work myself, I just need to ask someone then from the boys and smile sweetly, and when this work is done, thank. The boys were not at all opposed to helping, and if you sincerely said "thank you" to them, they were ready to do something else for you. "So that's how it is!", I thought, "it turns out that being a girl has its advantages!"

All in all, my long preface boils down to this. If I ask any person - and I asked - about what a "woman" is and what she needs, most of the answers will be in the spirit of "woman - mother" or "woman - mistress", and if not mother and not mistress, then there is no answer. Rather, there are no positive answers, because there are a lot of negative answers, take any anecdote, women are completely dull, hysterical, capable only of “putting out the brain” of men, they cannot engage in complex mental work and operate complex production equipment. Once my ex-husband, who needed to move some heavy piece of furniture, looked at me and my 50 kg weight with regret, and said: “What a pity you won't lift this sofa, I'll have to ask Petrovich to help.” I then told him that if he needed a wife to help move the furniture, he had to marry Petrovich, at the same time he would always have a drinking companion at hand.

Overall, it reminds me of my favorite expression "hammering nails with a calculator." Men, even those who declare that they love women and even respect women in some places, do not know at all what to do with this woman. You can, of course, again reduce everything to the primitive "sex / borscht / children", but for some reason not all fit into this standard, they also require some kind of attention, cry out of place, laugh for no reason, and sometimes what in this way they earn money without visiting the office every day at 9 to 18.

And they are all different. It seems that the word is the same, "woman", but there are both "boys" and "aunts", although no, those with silicone lips are easy to confuse with each other, they came off the same conveyor.

So what is a "woman" if she is not a mother or a mistress? There is also the concept of "muse", so beautiful and sophisticated, sits and inspires men to feats. But you can hardly imagine her in a T-shirt, sweatpants and gloves weeding a garden, and the one who does this very weeding also seems to have not ceased to be a woman.

As I usually say in sessions, "I don't mind anything at all." No twitched aunts, no silicone beauties, no mothers with many children, no child-free. But, having extensive experience working with women, I have long been convinced that they, for the most part, have no idea what it means to be a woman. Not a mother, not a beauty, not a mistress, not a "wife", and just a woman. Don't worry, before the era of coaching in my own life I had no idea either.

So what is the strength of a woman? The closest answer to this question is "in love", but I would say otherwise, "in acceptance."

“But excuse me,” women most often answer, “I just told you for an hour that my husband is a goat, and you offer me to“accept”him ????

No, I am not suggesting that you "accept" your husband. I do not even ask how you not only managed to marry a "goat", but also not to run away from him immediately after the wedding, without waiting for the birth of two children, I propose to accept what you feel. After all, the fact that he is supposedly a "goat" evokes certain emotions in you, so you need to work with them, and leave him alone, since he is in your life only in order to point you to your own attitudes that interfere with you be happy.

In fact, you need to start by accepting yourself as a woman. Accept that you came in this incarnation in a female body, and this is not just that, there is something that you must learn. In terms of energy, a woman is an energy receiver, and an energy distributor, unlike a man who takes energy from a woman, she receives her energy directly from space, or from the Universe, or from God, if this does not bother you word, and its task is to correctly distribute it. If you were given 500 liters of water per day, you can either use it to take a shower, cook food and water the garden, or you can pour it into dirty pots, and your day will turn out accordingly, or you will be clean, well-fed and with tomatoes, or dirty, hungry and with a bunch of dirty pots. Understanding that a woman gets the energy to create everything that she wants, just like that, every day simply because she is a Woman, generally clears the brain and allows you to look at yourself differently. And then another thought comes - the more I use my energy for good, the more good comes to me. Any living creature becomes healthier and prettier if properly cared for, so why shouldn't a Woman, as a creature who is given the ability to make the world better and more beautiful, take care of herself?

A woman creates her happy reality by the fact that she is happy in herself. Neither her husband, nor neighbor, nor children can make her happy, but she can make them, because she has the tools for this, she has energy that she can put into her husband, for example, and he just needs this … This is where the comparison with "hammering in nails with a calculator" again arises - a woman, in herself, is a high-tech complex device that, if used correctly, can give a man an almost unlimited amount of energy, but since for most men this device is incomprehensible, they and do not understand why it is needed, and try to reduce its functions to sex and borscht. It's almost as if you bought yourself an expensive synthesizer, but since you haven't learned to play it, you just fold dirty T-shirts on it. But here I am not very inclined to blame men indiscriminately - many women themselves do not really understand what they are, and as a result, they are happy with dirty T-shirts, at least some benefit!

The higher the vibrations of a woman, the more useful energy she generates for the surrounding world, and hence the arrival of material goods, the same money, for example. If the generator jams, there are problems with electricity, and so does a woman - the more often she is in a bad mood, in negative vibrations, in self-denial, the more scarce the stream of goodness in her direction. A happy woman loves herself, and for an understanding man, such a woman is like the best fuel for his racing car. No matter how cool the car is, if you pour donkey urine into the gas tank, it will not go, and if it does, it will stop after a couple of meters, and nothing but a tow truck will help you.

If a woman has accepted her nature, she begins to look at the world around her in a completely different way. She understands that for her good only what makes her happy, because this increases the flow of energy to creation, and everything that upsets her makes her feel unhappy, accordingly, the flow is blocked, and therefore such women will never "enter" into a toxic relationship with the wrong man, because they are not their own enemies! The same is with negative emotions - there is no point in sitting in them, feeling sorry for yourself and pouring the purest golden energy into dirty pots, you need to analyze them, accept them, and return back to joy and gratitude, which is a natural state for a woman. After all, if the universe gave you everything you want every day, just like that, wouldn't you be grateful to it for it?

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