2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Unfortunately, despite the access to all kinds of information and sexual sophistication that is present in our society, I often come across the fact that people do not understand what natural sexuality is.
Our minds are constrained by some superficial, learned ideas about sex.
And the saddest thing is that it seems to us that these ideas in the head are reality. We think we know everything about sex.
And despite the fact that this “know” is often unsatisfactory, the overwhelming feeling of shame does not allow us to talk about it with someone.
These two factors - our "knowledge" and our sense of shame are the main obstacles to discovering our natural source of energy.
Another factor I discovered that often separates us from our sexuality is that we have been taught to separate sexuality and love. On this basis, internal conflicts often arise and, as a result, relationship problems. Although for me these two things are completely impossible to separate and sexuality in my opinion is an expression of love. But more on that next time:)
I will not write now about how parents, due to their ignorance of the stages of a child's sexual development and lack of awareness of their sexuality, traumatized us and what consequences this has for our life. There is a lot of literature about this.
I would like to dwell on why this topic still causes quite a lot of controversy.
I am deeply convinced that sexuality is suppressed the more the more civilized we become.
Sexuality - refers primarily to our animal nature. Although through sexuality we can connect with the divine, but, first of all, it is our animal nature. And by denying it, we completely deny our existence. Of course, I do not mean that we are only animals, but first of all, we are biological beings and suppressing or considering the lower the natural biological functions of our body, we will never enjoy the fullness of life, and we also will not go further in our spiritual development …
Modern culture requires us to become as civilized as possible, put on a suit, tighten our tie, put on heels, study at the university, become a good, decent girl or boy and forget that we are alive.
Why is this happening?
Because society needs functioning people who are focused on profit, achievement and progress.
No one will benefit (except you of course:) if you connect with your natural sexuality and, thanks to this, discover your freedom-loving animal nature, your love for pleasure and pleasure.
Although, to be honest, I am sure that the whole society will benefit enormously if everyone begins to heal their sexuality. In my opinion, this will bring people closer to themselves and reduce the amount of violence and cruelty in the world.
Again, I'm not talking about the need to quit work, undress and run into the forest:)
But in order to live your natural sexuality, it is necessary from time to time to throw off the conventions of civilization and return to your wilderness, to the sensations of your body.
Take off your jacket, kick off your heels, let your hair down, relax your cheekbones, let go of yourself and just be: dance, do stupid things, play and enjoy.
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