2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Follow your path and let
other people say whatever.
Dante Alighieri
Only the one who goes his own way
will never be overtaken by anyone.
M. Brando
Life path - by no means a straight line …
This line consists of separate segments - stages. The stages are separated from each other by crises. Crises - key moments of the life path, symbolizing the transition from one stage to another.
Why do they need all these stages, crises? Is it really impossible to take everything well at once to plan and live life smoothly, without nodes-crises?
No you can not. It is impossible to write a project of your life for yourself once and for all. Even if it was originally written like that, it still has to be corrected over time. Clarify. Change. In short, engage in revision of your life path … As my friend and wonderful therapist Boris Drobyshevsky likes to repeat: "Life is richer than our plans!" And I agree with him)
Those goals-tasks that the Man set for himself eventually exhaust themselves. Some tasks are solved by him, others cease to be relevant and no longer require a solution.
The Logic of Life is such that a living Man “grows out of his old clothes” and he needs to “shed his old skin” - to change his usual image of I, his established identity
And the Man discovers that his former important needs for him are losing their energy charge. What still attracted and attracted yesterday has become uninteresting today. If you continue to do this, then rather out of habit, without drive. And if you continue to do this automatically, without noticing anything, without feeling, then energy and joy leave life. But apathy and boredom comes. And more and more often you have to turn on "Must mode!" - to persuade yourself, to whip up, to force …
And the Man, if he is still "alive", notices this, and more and more often begins to ask himself the following questions:
Who am I?
What am I?
Why am I?
Do I like my life?
Is this my life?
Am I living it the way I want?
And what do I want anyway?
Am I living with that person?
Am I doing what I want?
Am I doing what I want? Am I talking about what I want? Do I want what I want?
If a Man asks himself these questions, then it has come Life crisis time … And the crisis of Life is at the same time a value-semantic crisis, and always identity crisis. This is the opening time of the opportunity for birth new I.
And this is the time of revision-clarification for the Human being of his life values. The values that led the rating in its value scale cease to be such. They will have to shift lower and give way to other values.
And for a Human, the very time comes when you need to postpone everything and start revising your life values - everything that will be "fuel" for him during the next relatively calm period of life. Something that will open access to his new internal energy - energy for setting new goals, for solving new problems. It is from these values that new life meanings will grow and goals and objectives for their implementation will be outlined. And then life will again be filled with energy and joy!
And so on until the next life crisis-node.
And there - all over again: to realize, rethink, reevaluate, change …
That is life…
You can, of course, not change anything. But then - stagnation and "non-life". Living out …
And here it is up to everyone to decide.
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