2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Thinking that we are talking about walking in heels?
Is it so easy to walk on them? And why use it if it's uncomfortable and your legs get tired? Of course, to be more beautiful, taller, more feminine, sexier, more desirable and more fashionable.
And I propose to talk about other "heels". So in youth slang they say about men of special personal, characteristic behavior. So it is about such "heels" that folk myths are born and spread, with some of which you can agree, and others to debunk.
The first myth
The henpecked person fulfills all the girl's desires
Of course, such desires as a relaxing massage or a glass of warm tea, a cup of morning coffee, a pillow placed on time or a warm shawl in the evening by the lake. And at the same time, a warm, supportive gaze, soft and at the same time strong hugs - all so as to feel like a weak little girl. Everything to feel your femininity and desirability.
But a woman has problems in business, serious financial or maybe social problems, where rationalism, assertiveness is needed, maybe rudeness and strength, charisma, determination and risk. And the polarity switching does not work. The man offers to let everything go by itself, leave, abandon, abandon the goal, deligate together, or he himself disappears, motivating this by the fact that he is close to a nervous breakdown.
And the girl at this moment has a different desire. So what about the universality of this myth? No, it does not work.
The second myth
The henpecked man agrees with the girl in everything
Donking in conversation. Merging in the information flow. Merging at the mental level. Unity of phrases and thoughts. They say that such vapors even breathe in one direction. And the popular phrase is triggered that there was still a real half of you, scattered millions of years ago in the universal chaos. Half in real and spiritual tastes. At ninety years old, such couples walk along the yellow leaves of the park, quietly and lightly recalling the melodies of bygone years, temporary values, and prepare branded recipes on Saturdays for close and dear guests.
It looks like the cover of the magazine "My Family". I believe that over time, personality correction occurs and from two logs fixed in parallel on a lathe, as a result, identical products are obtained.
The suppressed feelings of each other as a result of the work of the lathe of life can crawl out imperceptibly, or they can hide. It’s just truthful to answer the questions of each other and yourself, and then the myth will work. And no guy is henpecked, it's just that the stars really came together and the unity is real.
It is important not to confuse God's gift with scrambled eggs. And sometimes fraudsters work according to this scheme.
Heels are very pretty, feminine and attractive, but do not forget that there are other shoes.
Remaining a person, respecting your own thoughts and admitting that others have their own view of our beautiful world - this is a conscious adult position of a person.
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