2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Increasingly, in my practice, I come across the stories of women who find it difficult to grow up now. Even if a woman is 40, inside of her there is still that inner little girl who is still looking for and longing for a person who will cover all her needs.
The need for love and acceptance, the prince who will solve all her issues (work, personal, financial) will give unearthly happiness.
But life is very different.
Relationships can really be cool when a woman meets her man and she feels good with him, it's mutual. For the first stage of the relationship, this is approx.
Further, the relationship is gaining momentum and people begin to contact with fewer masks, they get closer, everyday everyday issues begin to emerge, romance fades into the background. And here begins the most interesting and difficult at the same time for many women.
Independence. After the merger, healthy separation begins. And then women have anxiety, which leads to jealousy, fear of losing a partner and not at all the thoughts that a mature woman usually experiences - about her life.
Catching on to a partner, living with his dreams, plans, decisions, dependence on a partner is what destroys a woman. Without realizing this, women destroy relationships with their own hands. They cease to be interesting to themselves and to be included in their life.
The loss of one's boundaries, needs, goals and interests in life leads to the precariousness of a woman's position. A man consciously / unconsciously feels it, stops reaching out to her.
The truth is one and simple: love and respect for oneself generates both love and respect of others for you. To be interesting, you need to be interested in something yourself.
And now I'm not talking about a woman having to carry everything on herself - this is the other extreme of dependence (counterdependence), but the ability to build partnerships while remaining a woman in them is an important task for a woman.
And in order to be in a happy relationship with someone, it is important to build the same relationship with yourself and your life. Learning to be an adult and take responsibility for yourself, then your value in the eyes of a man increases.
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