2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I have written and talked a lot about the Coach Position at a conscious level. For your minds and minds.
Now I want to turn to the unconscious. And I have two gifts for you.
One
From the training of Judith DeLosier
Judith often speaks in metaphors.
And here is one of them.
“We work with real people. And even when we spur the horse, we cannot know exactly what will happen next …"
The second is from me
Remember Cinderella? The one still Soviet?
There, when the Fairy Godmother came to Cinderella and offered to go to the ball.. she said an incredibly wise thing!
“… Today the beds will be washed out by hares, beans will be sorted out by mice, coffee will be made by cats.
And to the question of Cinderella: "And roses?" she replied: "And the roses will grow by themselves!"
Own independent growth is another distinctive feature of a "living" organism.
And we, as Trainers, Coaches, Psychologists, Psychotherapists - create Space and we are only Condition for Growth.
And it is important to be very sensitive to the Space in which Changes, Learning and Growth become possible.
And the main task is not to be the condition under which the rose will be trampled down, very diligently flooded with water, or oversaturated with fertilizers.
Most of you are familiar with the fact that the dynamic interaction in the process of counseling, and indeed communication in general, is called Rapport
We are all the time in Presence, in the "here and now" to notice.
We are constantly in Attention and observe what
where do our Actions and "spurring"
and how good is what is happening, and whether it matches Intentionwhich we formed for a session, a meeting.
And this is our Development Compass again
Coach's compass
And Balance is the Mastery of both any person and a Professional in his field.
And this is truly the Art of working with a Human.
And this is what makes him and will be the Champion.
It really is a Facilitation of its Growth.
This is Mastery.
Now, now, I will do miracles. I love this job! Boy, magic wand!
(c) Fairy, "Cinderella"
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