2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The uniqueness of the family constellation method lies in the fact that it allows, at the level of the deep unconscious, to seek solutions to the most confusing and hopeless situations - repetitive life scenarios, difficult destinies, movement towards death, chronic diseases and symptoms.
This is a tool with which you can go there and see what many generations have kept as a family secret or guarded as a family prohibition.
There are family systems where there are few changes and resources in a person's life, a lot of mistakes and fears - you can only look for a solution through family constellations. Simply because the emotionally - mental and bodily block is so powerful, and the psychological defenses overlaid the person's personality so much that only following the Field at a deep level is possible and will lead to some kind of decision.
Substitutes, which are the conductors of feelings, excluded stories that appear in the Field, permissive phrases that support movement in the Field, all of this together can give an effect, after which a person gets relief or energy and resources appear for what was earlier for him was inaccessible and out of his sight.
It is normal when a person comes to work with a huge number of claims against parents and condemnation of ancestors. Behind this may be the systemic pain of several generations immersed in abusive relationships or sexual abuse or murder by blood relatives. And the task of the method is not to reconcile everyone with everyone or to save the long-dead, but to give an opportunity to see the stories with which a person is intertwined, to change the quality of the interweaving from “-” (to lose, to give) to “+” (resource, changes). Leave guilt and pain to those to whom it belongs, connect with excluded power. Indeed, despite the violence experienced, the clan lives and continues - there are resources in the system and a person can take them, agreeing that he is not responsible for what has been done and what has already passed. Then the power may appear to turn to your life and your future, to shift the focus of attention from suffering and losses to your tasks and a point of growth. Hold on to yourself, not hang out in space.
It is perfectly normal when a man or woman comes to work with a huge number of claims and condemnation of a partner, with contempt for the world of men and the world of women. Behind this can also be the systemic pain of several generations immersed in abusive relationships or sexual violence or murder by a man or woman. A person also has the opportunity to shift his focus of attention in a relationship from deception and betrayal to his tasks and points of growth in the relationship.
Relatives, money, self-realization, relationships are topics in which there is often a lot of pain and carry it for generations, sometimes even exalting it into a cult of suffering and sacrifice. Constellations reveal a space in which a person has a choice - either to further plunge into systemic pain and generic prohibitions or to go out on their own Path and turn to their life by connecting with the resources thanks to which their ancestors, in spite of everything, endured and survived everything, passing this gift to future generations.
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