2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I watched the film "My King"
It is always advised as a film about abuse, relationships with a psychopath and a narcissist. Tanya finds herself in a destructive love relationship with Giorgio. In those same swing "I love" - "I ignore". Giorgio does not raise his hand, does not raise his voice, he is caring and loving. Only Tanya has a crush on this love: hysterics, nervous breakdowns begin, she cannot live without sedatives, she became absent-minded (to the point that she forgets a stroller with a child in a pharmacy), attempts at suicide …
As I watched the film, I thought: how lucky she was with her brother! I especially liked the scene where her brother changes her handkerchiefs, wet with tears, and says “it's time for you to save your own skin”. It is so important when there is someone who does not condemn, educate, lament, and does not return to the trauma by talking about "how unfairly you were treated and what a bastard he is." How nice it is when you can live with your relatives and you will be comfortable there …
And it's good that it took place professionally. Tanya is a lawyer and apparently successful.
It's also good that she didn't leave her hometown. And that she likes life in this city.
And how many girls ended up in another country, away from loved ones, without work, or, even worse, at exhausting work and only then found out who their prince is. Or they didn't recognize him: they thought that he was perfect and something was wrong with her … And if we add relatives to this. As a rule, the mothers of such people very gracefully lead the daughter-in-law (son-in-law) to the idea that she is a nonentity. No, no one says this, but for some reason a person begins to think about himself like that.
It is very, important that in life there is someone and something to rely on. Tanya had a support - a brother and his girlfriend, work, hometown … and she coped.
In 9, 5 Weeks, John tells Elizabeth, “You don't have to clear the table. Don't do this. I'll clean it up myself. I will buy food … I will cook … feed you, dress you … and undress, bathe, take care of you … "And then I want to say" run from him, urgently! " It is not shown in the film, but in the book John really does it all - spoon-feeds, dresses and undresses, and then tells Elizabeth, who has already forgotten how to dress herself, that she cannot even cope with the elementary ones. This "romantic" movie is about BDSM, just like the book. In the book, the main character ceased to belong to herself in a couple of months. Then she had to spend several months in rehabilitation at the clinic.
Both films are about the suffering of women, but men can also find themselves in destructive relationships.
Usually, romantic relationships start out beautifully and in the beginning everything looks like a fairy tale. What will happen next is unknown. While you are being carried in your arms, please do not forget how to walk.
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