2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It is easier for us to perceive everything through a particle of NOT. By using it, we know for sure what we DO NOT want, what is NOT recommended for us, etc. They say that our brain does not perceive a particle of NOT. However, the phrase becomes clearer with her. She somehow explains everything intelligibly.
In general, I wanted to recommend you my “never” list.
So, never:
Do not give up. There are always obstacles, and they are surmountable only by efforts of will
Do not give up. Our inner motivator, core, spirit depends on us. You can overcome what you are facing and achieve what you are striving for
Don't force yourself. If something needs to be done, from the “need” category, agree with yourself, see the goal, for the sake of which you are doing “need”
Don't lose faith in yourself
Do not lose faith in people, nature, the universe
Do not listen to those who do not believe in themselves and discourage you from doing something
Don't shut yourself out of love. All our feelings are only ours, therefore the ability to love depends on us
Do not tolerate bad attitude towards yourself
Do not be afraid to defend yourself: talk about your opinion, disagreement, discomfort
Don't give up on your goals, dreams, desires
Don't let the people dear to your heart leave your life. A person you like is not easy to find
Don't let others criticize you
Don't let others discount your accomplishments, personality traits, creativity, and whatever you do
Don't take responsibility for things that aren't your actions. Others are just happy to throw something of their own on us
Don't suppress your emotions and feelings
Don't let others stop you from experiencing different emotional states. Usually we are told “this is not allowed”, “you are too touchy” (for example), “well, what are you doing, because you only make yourself worse”, “don’t be angry”, etc
Don't fall into sacrifice. You can feel sorry for yourself, but control it so that it does not develop into a victim state
Don't complain about yourself
Do not self-flagellate
Do not spare your time and money. It often happens that people are even too lazy to cook for themselves food. For others, yes, but they don't care about themselves
Don't give in to your fears
Don't hinder your curiosity and interest in the world
Do not deny yourself travel
Don't spend a lot of money on clothing and accessories. Spend on something that brings a lot of emotion and stays in your memory for a long time
Don't forget about your health. Monitor at least the most basic metrics. Do routine checkups
Do not skimp on massage. They help our body and harmonize our mood
Don't forget about your parents. Help them, call as often as possible
Don't blame your parents for doing something wrong with your upbringing
Do not deprive children of your attention
Do not forget to thank those who did you a favor, helped you, did a good service. Also recommend such people to others
Don't help if you cannot help. If you cannot refuse help, then you are abusing yourself
… and many more NOT, but these are enough, and everyone can add their own.
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