How To Realize Dreams At Any Age With The Help Of Self-organization?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Once I was not the most organized person and life "answered me in return." Today, at fifty, I am satisfied with life, much more than at twenty, largely due to personal self-organization.

Let's see what self-organization is?

Self-organization - This is the development of will, intelligence through self-discipline, self-education, acquisition of skills and the development of established habits to complete the assigned tasks.

If it is simpler, then you are responsible for your actions, evaluate them critically, limit yourself in desires for the sake of achieving the goal.

Self-organized people are able to:

• set tasks
• plan every day,
• overcome difficulties
• competently bypass obstacles on the way,
• follow the chosen road, without deviating from the given route.

Such people strive for:

• personal, career growth,
• know how to motivate themselves,
• to distinguish the main from the secondary.

People do not lend themselves to self-organization:

• infantile,
• spineless,
• devoid of a sense of responsibility,
• and people who are not aware of themselves as a separate (independent of other people or circumstances) personality,

The principles of self-organization include:

• creativity,
• tolerance for dissent,
• dedication,
• openness,
• constant development.

The goal differs from the desire with a clear "road map"

If the desire and the goal coincide, this is good, but not enough. The desire can quickly change, all efforts will be wasted. Intention without volitional efforts also leads nowhere.

For example, a woman wants to get married and does nothing for this, but continues:

• live in a small town, where you will not find suitors "in the daytime with fire",
• work in a female team,
• to have a rest with parents "at the hacienda",
• spend evenings watching TV series,
• ignore dating sites

Only a goal set by a self-organized person leads to a result.

It is important to learn:

• love, not pity yourself
• hear your true desires
• overcome laziness and procrastination,
• conquer shyness and insecurity.

If it is difficult to do it yourself, you should contact a psychologist.

So, have you decided that the fate of an old maid or a loser is not for you?

• Do you want to be truly happy?
• Get an education despite the fact that you are already 25, 30, 40 or more years old?
• Building a dream career?
• Create a family and build harmonious relationships?
• Meet old age in the circle of your dearest people?

Follow your goal regardless of age and circumstances

Feel free to step out of your comfort zone:

• Change your place of residence - many, very many people move to large cities in adulthood.
• Go to a new, more promising, in all respects, job
• Register on recruiting sites or sites designed to find a life partner

The main thing is not to sit and wait for the weather by the sea

Most often, at the initial stage you have to overcome yourself, then later actions become a habit, become a matter of course.

At the age of 48, after a very serious illness, the result of which was not a working group of disability, I was not afraid to change the direction of my activity, and moved from the field of training and personnel development to a private practice, which is successfully developing, and at fifty I began to write a dissertation. This happened because I learned self-organization and oncology, in many ways, I was also able to overcome, organizing a treatment for which they did not even want to take me:

Invitation to execution or candidate for elimination?

Without self-organization, I would be sitting on a beggarly pension. I have clients who have several high-paying online jobs, living in the countryside, in the far north or abroad.. They could sit and whine that there is no work in their locality, only they did not go the most standard way.

Working online, I met a huge number of people who went abroad, so as not to complain about the state and the fact that it is bad, to take care of people!

If you do not have the strength to endure your husband, boss, president - do not expect them to change, but change your own life

Now I am at a scientific and practical conference in Moscow.

Program of the International Scientific Conference in Moscow

Yesterday I met with a client who told me that I was "very beautiful." What do you think, there can be a beautiful woman almost 51 years old, with a lot of objective features of her appearance without organizing herself:

- If you do not get up early to tidy up your face and apply high-quality makeup, turning a pale, puffy face into a "shining peach"?

- Do not choose clothes that emphasize the advantages and level the disadvantages?

Tomorrow I will meet with my client, who is also the mother of a client who, thanks to our joint work, got married on June 7. This is all about self-organization too. Everything works out when people just take it and do it!