2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Remain resilient.
Children often throw tantrums in a public place. Then the parents lose their composure. They are afraid of the evaluation of others, fall into a sense of guilt and shame, they consider this a kind of shame. In such a state, it is difficult for the parents themselves to adequately respond and often they shout or beat at the child.
What is important for a parent:
- do not pay attention to others
- be guided by their own interests with taking care of the child
What happens to a child during a tantrum?
- he can't handle his feelings
- does not distinguish that now it is impossible to get what you want
What should a parent do?
- Leave the child without spectators. Very often the child plays to the audience and throws tantrums in crowded places. It is worth taking the child out of the store, taking him to another room and depriving him of the audience. Then the hysteria ends quickly, because there is no one to cry for.
- Offer an adequate replacement as soon as the child begins to calm down a little. For example, now we cannot buy a typewriter because there is no money, but we can come home and make it out of a construction set or plasticine. Joint activity is the first step towards the formation of stable contact with the child.
- Capricious chair. If the tantrum occurs at home, you can put the child on a chair with the words: “If you want to be capricious, be capricious in this chair! And when you stop crying, come back and we will play together. Thus, the child understands that he cannot influence his parents with his whims and tears. This is the suppression of childish manipulation and the upholding of parental boundaries.
On July 23, 2020, we will analyze in detail why it is impossible to break an aggressive child and how to behave correctly with him, and most importantly, "what to do?"
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