2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Personal qualities formed in the family system are a person's luggage for life. Or until the moment of their awareness and separation from themselves, as imposed from outside. Someone is very profitable and convenient.
You wear up to 15 rings around your neck, not because you like it or it is convenient, but because you were born in this tribe.
And the essence of the imposed feelings and stereotypes is about the same. They go with them, wear them and are afraid to take them off. After all, it is very difficult for such women to hold the neck themselves. Muscles lose their ability to elasticity and motor function suffers. Intervertebral changes occur.
Question: Do women from this Padaung tribe need to remove these rings?
Does a person need to change the character that has been formed for decades, if he is so bad that every day tears and depression, somatic diseases creep in and incomprehensible diagnoses are made by doctors with bouquets?
A mother and a girl are at the consultation. The child has learning problems (reduced attention, poor memory, all types of visual, auditory, motor.) Problems in communication among peers: closed, uncommunicative, often crying, secretive, sometimes stealing, keeping silent.
From the first phrases, the mother positions her daughter with the phrase: "She is very shy for me." The girl answers all questions through an interpreter. First to my mother's ear, then my mother to me. What is it about? Who benefits from this behavior? What is the child trying to compensate for by stealing and stealth?
The girl is the fourth child in a family with unclear boundaries; later, traces of psychological violence in the family were found, moments of sexual harassment by her brother.
And this constraint, like a ring on your neck, prevents you from being decisive and firm, it prevents you from fighting back and turning your head in the right direction.
Parenting is the most difficult and responsible role that many people forget, do not prepare for it, sometimes overplay, sometimes even improvise and fail in their own Inner Child. If you have a dozen rings of your own or borrowed beliefs around your neck, think about whether to wear them for your child?
Correctional work is underway with the girl, permission to cover the material has not been received, so I keep silent about the details of the story.
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