2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It’s great, well, you have grown up to see your emotions and feel in words (for good reason, if you have it in an accessible form, you don’t expect it). Children also have their own mova spilkuvannya, inodi - the process of somatization, so that they react with a little bit of change, so that they get ready to go. Otzhe child tilom reacts, if you are afraid:
- separation. Guess the first one to go to the cage, why do you go to the robot that the child is overwhelmed for a trivial hour from the kimos? Even more often there is a child on the ryvny mіsci "hapaє" fever, red throat, otitis media, coughing and coughing intestines. This is how fear manifests itself in traumas, such as the first child of the world.
- punishment. Trying to be capricious, but not to break the rules, not to hear, and the stench can go wrong when you ruined it - if my mother does not react to the price, do not introduce punishment into the frame (it is often necessary to add something) Bachimo a picture, if in the near future the child is falling or hurting (symbolically punishing myself, so symbolically I am lowering my sense of guilt inside, surely everything is lost on an unaccountable rivn).
The reasons for the psychosomatics of ditini can be:
1. Inadvertent development of the conversation about the child - hyperopic (a spoonful. Making a child in a blender at a child, if the child is still going to school, etc.), lack of awareness, competition for a child.
2. Injury - the loss of someone from the members of the family, crises of the moment in the family.
3. Empathic diminution of the daddy is not sensitive to the daddy's need, or the experience of the child (it is often very early in the childhood, as well as in the child's life).
4. Children’s meaning - and even more often it’s funny because it’s called out (“yo, maєsh so sami vuha yak baba Oriska ours”, “the same inaccurate і slacking, like і tvіy tato”), products of creativity, little creativity konstruyuvannya, yak pulled on chi tryє gotuvati їzhu for a while).
5. The family is "taboo" chi vzichki - if in the family it is accepted not to show your respect (you cannot get angry or to show sorrow for the singing member of the family);
Remember, "chemn", the closed children are more ill, they are less likely to aggro and manifest their emotions on the basis of their names. It is important for that to let the children cry and to experience those who want to at the given moment (get angry and show yourself at all, importantly, but the dad showed how the price was correct (do not cry out for them).
I wish you health and your children!)
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