2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Let me remind you that a serious illness is not a flu or a chronic rhinitis, it is not a migraine or a cough. This is what threatens a person's life - it is not treated, it is difficult to heal, or healing is perceived as a miracle. A serious illness devours the personality and destiny of a person, much will not happen, even more will become inaccessible.
The disease is a test for a person at the level of personality - it's time to establish contact with your soul, inner world and look for solutions to dozens of internal conflicts that are already tearing the body apart.
But illness at a deep, generic level, it is not about a test at all, this is a message, a certain letter in an old yellowed envelope - and the longer you postpone reading this letter, the more irreversible the processes will already take place at the bodily level.
In this letter - a message, a kind of story, the time of which has come to become visible, read, lived, so that the process of releasing the energy and resources necessary for healing begins and so that what has tormented and burdened several generations will receive its place and recognition.
It is a fatal mistake to deny the generic influence on oneself through the manifestation of the disease. After all, a letter in an old yellowed envelope has already been received and it makes itself felt and requires reading through the symptoms, through negative dynamics, through an inexplicable deterioration of the condition.
How to proceed?
You can continue to ignore and pretend that you did not receive anything, and fight with symptoms and negative dynamics until your death. Assuring myself, but actually deceiving, "I did everything I could."
Or you can take a chance and open the envelope, pick up a letter and have the courage to look openly at what the ancestors did not have enough strength for. Because not a simple story awaits you without a happy ending, with difficult elections, unpaid price, betrayal, losses and unfulfilled.
And with each line you read, you will begin to understand more and more why this disease happened to you, why it was you who had the lot to look for a solution, what qualities only you possess, that a letter sent a hundred, or even two hundred years ago fell into your hands rather than others.
PERMISSIVE PHRASES
These are phrases leading to the resolution or solution that the client is looking for for himself. These phrases are taken by the psychotherapist - the constellator not from the ceiling and not even from the Moon, but from the deep unconscious of the Client. Therefore, they bring relief and insight, new understanding and awareness.
1. Now I see that it is better for me to remain a little girl and live my mother's life than risk growing up and live my life in which there will be men for me and money for me
2. Now I see that it is better for me to stay small, to live in fear and to please my mother's wishes, than to risk having my own desires
3. Now I see that growing up begins when I want something for myself, not for my mother.
Which of the 3 permissive phrases responds to you? What's in it about you? What's new she reveals to you?
Write your opinion in the comments
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