2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There are signs, thanks
which you will not go astray.
"Alchemist" Paulo Coelho
Signs are signals given to us by guardian angels, God, the Universe (everyone can choose the most appropriate definition for themselves). They can convince you of the correctness of the chosen path, or they can indicate its erroneousness.
Sometimes you say: "A good sign" - and you are glad that the circumstances are developing in a favorable way. This means that the decision you made or the actions you take are exactly what you need and are directed to your benefit.
However, sometimes signs indicate the uselessness or uselessness of your actions. They seem to stop you, "slow down", making it clear that "you don't need to go there."
Learn to look closely at the signs and follow them. (P. Coelho)
If a person's intuition is well developed, then he sees, understands, feels the signs that are encountered on his way. If reason dominates and drowns out intuition (the voice of the soul), then a person will consider unfavorable circumstances not as a sign, but as an obstacle that must be overcome and go further in the intended direction.
Example.
You urgently need money. And you remember that there is a person who will definitely help you because, in your opinion, it will not be difficult for him. You call this person, but he does not answer. You call the second time, the third - the reaction is the same. Moreover, during the day this person does not call you back. The next day, you decide to call someone from his inner circle to get out to him. They tell you that he is abroad either ill, or there is some other reason why he will not talk to you, and even less meet. And you are upset because your expectations were not met, although the course of your thoughts and actions seemed to you to be the most optimal for resolving the issue.
Meanwhile, already on the first day there were several signs (unanswered calls, no call back), which indicated that this person would not help you, and you had to look for other options for solving your problem. But, since you are sure that difficulties must be overcome, regardless of their nature, then you do not give due attention to these signs.
V. Sinelnikov has a good idea, it consists in the following: everything that you achieve easily and freely is yours. You don’t want something that’s going tight. It is not worth “breaking over the knee” that which does not lend itself, straining the Universe.
I would like to clarify that this does not mean at all that everything in life will be obtained easily and without difficulty. It is clear that in order to become a specialist, you need to study at a higher or secondary vocational educational institution, where you will have to work hard to master the necessary disciplines. Then some work experience is required, during which, too, not everything can go smoothly.
In this case, we are talking about situations when you "break into a closed door", and if you get there, you understand that there is no benefit to you from this, although a lot of effort and nerves was expended.
Everyone has their own path, their own path, following which determines the purpose of a person in life. When you learn to pay attention to signs, you stop wasting energy and then be disappointed that the development of events did not work out the way you imagined it.
You will find your way according to the signs with which the Lord marks the path of everyone in this world. You just need to be able to read what is written for you. (P. Coelho)
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