2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57
He is a liar, deceiver, cheater, impudent and pervert. You can't rely on him. He's no use. He does not at all look like a knight, or a stone wall, or a breadwinner, or a defender. He doesn't even understand what responsibility, honesty and duty are. He doesn't care. The main thing for him is for fun. He is a destroyer. The truth does not quite understand that this is bad for someone. The main thing is that he is having fun. He's a trick. And everyone around him laughs. Not all? Well, if you don't have a sense of humor, that's your problem.
Why is he to a woman, in fact? After all this? He is the complete opposite of everything that a normal girl should like, who wants to start a family. Or a lady, for a serious and long-term relationship.
What do they usually write on a dating site to please? A serious man is looking for a serious woman for a serious and lasting relationship. And this one is clearly some kind of frivolous!
Maybe his lover then? He's funny. It may be a gigalo for a wealthy lady who does not want to bind herself with serious obligations. Maybe just a boyfriend - like "I have you for happiness - and my husband for other needs!" (this is from Shcherbakov's song). No, with his unpredictability - if he is a lover, then some kind of one-time. And the gigantic burned out of him in general, because money for him is nothing more than a joke, just like everything else. He will not hone the relief of the body in a rocking chair in order to correspond to the aesthetic tastes of a rich lady - he is broke.
A woman is, by nature, a mother and a bank. All this trickster is alien to her, give her reliability. She needs - once and for all her life. And so that he said - did, and not wove - and ran away.
And no one sees anything else in it, except as "the salt of the earth", a reliable rear, a home and an honorable pedestal for male merits. She herself no longer sees. Only he can see - the Trickster.
He is the only loophole for a woman to enter those unknown, unpredictable, full of risk and danger worlds of adventure, which without him she would not even dare to think
He is her guide to the world beyond everyday life. He is the one without whom the fire of the soul will be extinguished for lack of a spark. Moreover, the Trickster is a bisexual creature. In some mysterious way, he himself can be reincarnated into a woman … and why should not a woman also be reincarnated into him?
The trickster is a very important part of a woman's soul. One of the archetypes inherent in both women and men. Although there are not so many women tricksters. I could immediately recall only the foxes Kitsune and Pippi Longstocking.
Peppy I think needs no introduction. But about the foxes Kitsune - a little more. In Japanese folklore, they are known as being mysterious, attractive and dangerous at the same time. They are endowed with magical powers, can transform into women and enter into romantic relationships with men, sometimes even get married and live an ordinary human life for some time. However, sooner or later they show their fox nature and run into the forest. Kitsune is not alien to evil pranks, and sometimes vampirism. In a word, it is absolutely impossible to understand what is on their minds.
And yet - Arkan Jester from the Tarot deck of Goddesses: “I, Lan Tsaihe, the deity of the Chinese pantheon, one of the eight immortal heroes. Folklore sees me now as a beggar fool with castanets and a flute, now as a fairy of flowers, now as a woman, now as a man. I am clairvoyance, fantasy, madness and originality."
Thanks to my wonderful FB friends, the list of female Tricksters has been increased: Harley Quinn (from Batman), Baba Yaga (yes, Ma and Trickster are two different archetypes, but Baba Yaga as a fairy-tale character is quite a Trickster), Marla Singer (Fight Club), the old woman Shopoklyak, Milady (The Three Musketeers), Marquis de Merteuil (Dangerous Liaisons), the heroine from the movie "Dirty Swindlers", and of course - Irene Adler (Sherlock Holmes).
How do you like these heroines? Do you want to try on the image of one of them? Would you like to live in this image for a while? Do you feel the similarity? Or are you trying to stay away from people like them? These questions are a good test of "how connected you are with your inner Trickster."
The trickster is not a hero or a protector at all. He will not protect you from the bandits, but he can teach you how to get them around your finger so that they stay with their nose. He will not fight the dragon. He will charm him and agree on mutually beneficial cooperation.
The trickster is a challenge for the brave and a scarecrow for cowards. He is your distorting mirror, in which all your fears, prejudices, rigidity, pride, hypocrisy and hypocrisy are clearly visible. He will poke them in your face as long as there is even a hint of them. How you will get rid of them is solely your problem. Maybe you can just laugh at them with the Trickster? Will you stop running around with them like a chicken with eggs? Just open your hands and let go? But when you let go, it really will be forever. Simply because there is no one besides you to do it, and then finally you were forced to do it.
The trickster will turn your gaze within yourself. And if the most terrible enemies have wound up in your soul - boredom, dullness and hopelessness, destroying you worse than a cancerous tumor day after day - then you will not find a better defender against them than the Trickster
And his most valuable gift is that he will NOT be with you. Not permanently, not even to some extent predictable. It appears and disappears due to some completely incomprehensible coincidence of circumstances, consisting of mood, stars in the sky, weather outside the window, a favorable wind, and it is not yet known what.
What is the gift here? That he will wake up the Trickster within you. Probably, it looks like a spiritual conception, only you will not have to give birth to someone else, but yourself, a new version. Much more daring and unpredictable, with a huge increase in the number of degrees of freedom, insane fire in the eyes and an indomitable thirst for life in the heart. And there will be no peace for you or your environment. You will sweep away everything that gets in the way, break the chains, even gold ones. And what seemed like an unshakable truth before will suddenly become nothing more than a matter of your choice. And you can just as easily say yes or no, or say nothing at all, if not hunting.
Do you need it? Are you scared? Well then, no. Then run from the Trickster like hell from incense. This is such a trickster shape-shifter))
That is why he does not guard, does not protect, does not take care of. He is self-sufficient and will show this quality in yourself. And you will see this in yourself, communicating with him - where to go? This is a necessary stage of growing up, when you stop hoping for a kind mother, wait for support from a strong dad - you understand that there is only you and the world around you and your life is only in your hands, with all the ensuing bonuses and sorrows.
Something important. The trickster is an archetype (not a surname, as some of you may have thought). He is present in every person, just like the Inner Child, the Great Mother, the Wise Old Woman, etc. But the severity of this archetype can vary greatly from person to person. So no friend of yours can be pure Trickster. But if this archetype in it sparkles with all facets, then you recognized it in this article.
The trickster is not to be confused with the Infantelenk. Infantile is a baby that requires care and attention. A trickster is a teenager, he doesn't demand anything, he takes whatever he wants. Infantile is capricious, but at the same time ready to obey you. The trickster does not listen to anyone, and everything you say to him can and will be used against you. And not in court, but whenever you like, even right now. The baby girl needs a kind and caring mother. By and large, the trickster does not need anyone at all, but situationally - partners in his crazy games.
Trickster is generally cool, funny and creative. It's very fun and cool with him. But only when you know how to behave with him
For example, we had a stall with nuts and dried fruits where they sold … tricksters! You tell him: I have half a kilogram of nuts - and he will always weigh you more and does not want more than enough. Oh, we got 800 grams! Try it - they are so delicious! Take - we rarely have such, they will be quickly disassembled. If you want more, you will come - and they are no longer there.
So I began to specifically ask for fewer nuts than I am going to take. For example, if you need a pound, I say "I have 300 grams." He will weigh half a kilo, and I will be picky for the sake of appearance, and then I will take the 500 I need.
By the way! Wish-granting genies are also Tricksters. As we know from numerous fairy tales and legends, you need to keep your ear sharp with them, otherwise all the gold given by them will turn into shards. But what about learning how to turn shards into gold yourself?
The author of the article is Lana Taiges (Maslova Svetlana Vladimirovna) (c)
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