2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The subconscious mind always fulfills our true desires. For example: if you can't increase your income, lose weight, change jobs, find a job, leave a man, find a man, buy an apartment … and so on, maybe, in fact, you don't want this, just don't know about it? What is wrong with you?
For example:
Young woman wants to end the relationship with her husband, who took out a loan for her multi-room apartment. Therefore, she is forced to communicate with him, since she cannot pay herself.
I invite the girl to fill out the plate, the questions must be answered 16 times
First Answers belong to the so-called protective. Next comes exactly what you really want and what the girl is afraid of. And what does she want most of all? And what is he afraid of?
After a pause, the young woman asks cautiously:
-So it turns out ….. I'm afraid myself … of losing my husband, and the loan "helps" me in this? I'm not even afraid of losing my apartment, but him?
- It turns out that yes!
And in this situation her subconscious will do everything to not be able to pay the loan, and depend on her husband's payments. She “cannot” find more income and cannot do anything that will make her autonomous and solvent. Formally, there will be obstacles that supposedly do not depend on it.
Another example: a girl cannot find a job.
I suggest the girl fill out the plate, the questions must be answered 16 times:
Does the girl's subconscious want find a job? Despite the fact that she claims she wants to. Sends out a resume every day. She either does not answer, or is already refused at the interview. Why?
I can tell from experience participation in the selection (without search and selection) of personnel, that the internal state of the applicant is felt. By intonation, voice, eye expression and other non-verbal cues. Even if the applicant formally meets the requirements of the vacancy, it is worth asking him to draw a drawing, and it can be deployed to the exit.
No matter how professional the applicant is, however, if personal characteristics and conditions do not resonate with his high professionalism, the applicant is deployed to the exit immediately or shortly after employment.
What to do if internal settings and restrictions are found? In an employment situation, if there is a request, we work with each limiting belief separately. We expand the perception of the situation, carry out reframing - we look from different angles.
An example of buying an apartment … Fill out a similar plate as in the first two examples. Answer at least one question, only 16 times: what will happen, what will change in your life if you buy an apartment? What can you do that you couldn't before? Take a look at your answers. If it is difficult to understand and understand, come to the session, together we will decipher the answers of your subconscious.
For example, you have not fully decided do you want to have a baby. Until the housing issue is resolved, it seems to go without saying that it is too early to give birth, since you want an apartment first, then a child. Thus, the absence of an apartment helps to delay the issue of pregnancy. Therefore, the subconscious will do everything so that the apartment is not bought. Moreover, purchases and / or acquisitions of something for large sums do not start with.. money. And if you correctly build a chain of actions in this direction, then the money is found. However, if more on this topic, then this is a separate article.
Thus, if something is not working out for you, I urge you not to sprinkle ashes on your head, not to suffer or despair. Globally speaking, you are not to blame. And locally too. Attitudes and limiting beliefs are called subconscious because they are not realized. A person thinks that nothing interferes with him, except for external evil circumstances, or, he himself is not “good enough”, namely, qualified, well-built, even beautiful for the realization of his goal.
In fact, as soon as he brings to the light of consciousness something that he is not aware of at the moment, but influences and interferes, so immediately the picture can potentially change. Why potentially, because if there is a real request for these changes. Because, the subconscious mind does not just “interfere”. In fact, it just helps, protects from what the individual is afraid of. And it creates conditions for him for what he really wants, in the depths of himself, in fact.
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