2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
For every woman, starting a family is the highest priority. It happens that in the pursuit of a wedding ring, and recently also for the status of "married" in the social network, young ladies do not pay attention to whether the chosen one is really suitable for them for life, and whether he will really be a quality husband
Therefore, if you doubt your choice or just want to understand what kind of man you want to see next to you, then let's look at the following questions.
I love a person as he is, or possible perspectives of how he could be, how I want to see him?
It's no secret that perfect people don't exist. Therefore, many representatives of the fair sex believe that something is better than nothing, and for some moments you can close your eyes. Just think if this brings you happiness in a relationship.
If a man is tall, rich and handsome to you, this does not mean that in a difficult situation he will be able to become your reliable support. And then there are such qualities as the ability to empathize, take responsibility for your actions, tolerance and the ability to compromise, do not forget to share victories and defeats with your man, and make sure that you will always be supported.
Now think about your loved one and evaluate how much you can rely on him. If this is not present now, believe me, in the future he will not learn this either. You don't want to hope all your life and suffer.
Do I want my child to be like my man?
If in the near future you are planning to have at least one toddler, then you simply do not have the right to skip this question. When a child is born in a family, he receives not only parental genes, but also character traits, models of their behavior. If your husband is tyrannical, angry, cannot take responsibility, he will teach his younger generation the same. Of course, you can try to avoid the development of all these shortcomings, and perhaps you even succeed, but why waste time and effort, and also create difficulties for the child.
Do your views on life coincide?
Of course, everyone has their own opinion, their own principles, and they will not always coincide. But there are moments that simply ruin relationships and plans. For example, you want to travel and save money, but he is a spender, and he doesn't care what you want there, he would have a new prefix, or replace the upholstery of the seats in the car for the fifth time a year. Spiritual aspirations are no less important, you want to develop, and it is enough for him to lie on the couch in front of the TV, you want children, and he does not even think about it until he defended his thesis.
If you see that now you have completely different desires and plans for life, then why waste your precious years.
Did my man become happy when I appeared in his life? Am I happier when he appeared in my life?
The answers to these questions are fundamental to building meaningful relationships. The couple should be happy, enjoy each other's company, and not sigh with relief when the other half leaves for work. If at the beginning of a relationship you do not have enough attention, care, then think about what might happen next. The situation is more terrible in those couples who have already been dating for several years, but still cannot understand that the relationship has outlived its usefulness.
Do we have common dreams and goals?
If you have a fulfilling relationship, then you have shared goals, dreams that bring pleasure and further fuel the relationship. This is what you want to achieve in life, perhaps work, family, travel, and more.
And so, we can conclude that a relationship is successful if:
- thinking about your man, you can confidently say "I am ready to live with him all my life";
- you will be happy if your child looks like your man;
- you have common values and outlook on life;
- you became happier when this young man appeared in your life;
- your goals and aspirations inspire both of you to achieve and develop.
And remember, creating a relationship, you are responsible not only for yourself, but also for the unborn child.
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