2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
They said be a lady. Your skirt is too short. Your skirt is too long. Pants are too tight. Don't show so much skin. Don't show your hips. Don't show your breasts. Don't show your belly. Don't show your neckline. Don't show your underwear. Don't show your shoulders. Cover up. Leave something to the imagination. Dress modestly. Don't be seductive. Men cannot control themselves. Men have needs. You look like a blue stocking. Be liberated. Show me some skin. Look sexy. Look attractive. Don't be so provocative. It's like you're asking for it yourself. Wear black. Wear heels. You're too dressed up. You are poorly dressed. Don't wear those sweatpants: you look like you're screwed on yourself.
They said be a lady. Don't be too complete. Don't be too thin. Don't be big. Don't be small. Eat with gusto. Lose weight. Stop eating so much. Don't eat that fast. Order a salad. Don't eat carbohydrates. Don't eat dessert. You need to lose weight. Get into this dress. Go on a diet. Watch what you eat. Eat celery. Chew gum. Drink plenty of water. You need to fit into these jeans. God, you look like a skeleton. Why do not you eat? You look emaciated. You look sick. Eat your burger. Men love it when a woman has meat on her bones. Be small. Be light. Be small. Be graceful. Be feminine. Wear size 0. Wear size "x0". Be nothing. Be even less than nothing.
They said be a lady. Remove body hair. Shave your legs. Shave your armpits. Depil your bikini area. Remove hair from your face. Remove hair from your hands. Pluck your eyebrows. Get rid of the mustache. Lighten that. Bleach it off. The skin should be lighter. The skin should be tanned. Remove scars. Hide stretch marks. Tighten your abdominal muscles. Pump up your lips. Smooth out wrinkles with Botox. Get a facelift. Draw in your stomach. Thighs should be thinner. The shins should be in good shape. The chest should not hang. Look natural. Be yourself. Be sincere. Be confident in yourself. You try too hard. You've overdone it. Men don't like women who try too hard.
They said be a lady. Put on your makeup. Make your face flawless. Mask flaws. Contour your nose. Accentuate your cheekbones. Bring your eyes. Paint your eyebrows. Lengthen your eyelashes. Paint your lips. Powder, blush, bronzer, highlighter. Your hair is too short. Your hair is too long. The ends split. Make highlights. The roots are already visible. Dye your hair. No, not blue, it looks unnatural. You are turning gray. You look old. Look younger. Look young. Look like a man without age. Don't get old. Women don't age. Old age is ugly. Men don't like ugly ones.
They said be a lady. Take care of your honor. Be clean. Be virgin. Don't talk about sex. Don't flirt. Don't be a slut. Don't be a whore. Don't sleep with just anyone. Don't lose your dignity. Don't sleep with a lot of men. Don't go from hand to hand. Men don't like whores. Don't be shy. Don't be so tense. Have some fun. Smile more. Make men happy. Be experienced. Be sexy. Be innocent. Be loose. Be a virgin. Be sexy. Be cool. Don't be like other girls.
They said be a lady. Don't speak so loudly. Don't say so much. Don't intercept. Don't sit like that. Don't stand there. Don't push. Why you so sad? Don't be a bitch. Don't be so bossy. Don't be persistent. Don't be dramatic. Don't be so emotional. Do not Cry. Do not shout. Do not swear. Be passive. Be obedient. Endure the pain. Be nice. Do not complain. Don't give in too quickly. Improve his self-esteem. Let it fall at your feet. Men always want what they don't have. Don't give yourself. Let him fight for it. Men are hunters. Iron his clothes. Prepare food for him. Make him happy. This is a woman's work. Someday you will be a good wife. Take his last name. Give birth to his children. Do you want children? You want. Someday you will definitely change your mind.
They said be a lady. Don't be raped. Protect yourself. Do not drink too much. Don't go alone. Don't go anywhere late at night. Don't dress like that. Don't show too much body. Don't get drunk. Do not let go of the glass. Walk with someone together. Walk in well-lit areas. Live in safe areas. Tell someone where you are going. Carry a pepper spray. Buy a whistle. Clamp the keys between your fingers. Sign up for a self-defense course. Check the trunk. Lock the doors. Don't go anywhere alone. Don't make eye contact. Don't wave your eyelashes. Don't look easily accessible. Don't get attention. Don't work late. Don't react to dirty jokes. Don't smile at strangers. Don't go outside at night. Do not trust anyone. Don't say yes. Don't say no.
They said be a lady.
translation: Ekaterina Sigitova.
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