Arrogance

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Arrogance

Arrogance is one way to create distance in communication.

"I will not let you close to me, because - I am better than you" - broadcast into the world of an arrogant person.

It is difficult to recognize an arrogant person closer, because he keeps his distance, shows himself exclusively from his best side, “keeps his face” and suppresses his feelings in relation to others in society. He is on his own and he doesn't need anyone.

Arrogant on the outside - lonely and intimidated on the inside.

A person demonstrates his superiority by convincing himself and others of his exclusivity. Thus, it introduces itself into a rigid framework:

- it is impossible to relax, because it is necessary to keep the brand

-It is impossible to get support from others, because you don't need anyone

- constant internal fear of defeat and public shame. The more a person keeps his distance from others, the more fantasies he has of "what they say about him."

The arrogant person attaches excessive importance to the opinion of others about himself, which is why he constantly "keeps his face".

The superiority and inferiority complex is a double-edged sword. Therefore, the more a person demonstrates his superiority, the more self-doubt (not always realized).

Arrogance is a psychological defense in a relationship. As I wrote in other posts, the more fear of rejection inside a person, the more he repels himself.

For a full-fledged communication - the interlocutors must be equal in order to be able to express themselves, show feelings, express their interest, etc.

Arrogance is a limiting position "from above". But this is only an illusion, because a person cannot be better, higher, or smarter than everyone else. And this kind of demonstration only creates additional tension.

Descend from heaven to people who are very different, interesting, and start communicating.

Thanks to communication, a person gets to know himself better, has the opportunity to realize himself, and create a relationship in which there are a lot of feelings and life!