2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Or maybe this is such a vaccination, which, in his opinion, should entail a complete and final break? Ultimate for him. But not for the one who is just stepping into her own hell.
The abuser is simply playing with his victim in this way. Like a cat with a mouse. He's not going to let her go at all. He will "strangle" her and will watch the torment from afar, listen to a faint squeak. And when the mouse starts to come to its senses on the sly, the scheme of torment will repeat itself.
You need to protect yourself from manipulations designed to destroy your health and personality. But how to immediately understand and realize that yesterday you were still a loved one, today turned your life into a horror. This takes time. That works for him.
If you start to notice that your life has been going on like the plot of a horror movie for some time now, stop urgently. Do not be fooled by pity, interest, cheap advertising of yourself by the abuser. Do not believe the tales that he will change. Such is the nature of this fairy-tale character - a bad boy.
Women understand everything, but like a drug, this type of men continues to attract them to themselves. With ordinary cute boys, it seems that it is no longer interesting. This means that you have become codependent, a victim of this cold stranger, in fact, to you.
And why did you come up with the idea that he is cute, dear, the only one? Yes, the best is the tormentor. He steals your precious time, and just tramples the best in you. Sometimes such a man can use property and finances. In the worst case, it will take your life, trample your soul.
And health is difficult to restore. It cannot be exchanged back for false words and empty promises. Can't replace endless SMS.
It can be very difficult to get out of such a situation on your own. You may need the help of a specialist, as relatives are often unable to understand the essence of what is happening. They see in your tormentor a sweetheart and a bunny, in any case, quite worthy, from a distance, a person..
Try to shake yourself up, take care of yourself.
Author: Angelica Bogdanova
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