2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"You see right through people" - say those who know what I do. “It’s not like that,” I say back.
"Does it bother you in your personal relationships to see when you are being lied to?" - many people ask. "And I do not turn on the profiler" - I answer.
In order to make it clear what I mean, I answer: physiognomy and non-verbal communication. It is not worth counting on a person's face his character traits, but on his gestures - whether he is sure of a given promise or there is uncertainty in his words, often equated (with due verification) to a lie.
Any superpowers are of overwhelming interest and are often equated with psychic. But this is not the case. Science, experience, a lot of practice - and here's the result. In fact, any person can master any unusual skill, provided that he has a talent for this and a desire to polish something in order to bring the goal to perfection. Craftsmanship is in itself something unique and extraordinary that arouses surprise, admiration and even envy.
Almost any communication is manipulative. Wherever the goal of the dialogue is to get what you want, it already implies manipulation. Parents and children - what is not an example? "If you don't do your homework, you won't go outside" or "Will you be borscht or soup?" - there is only one principle - an ultimatum or a choice without choice. What do you think it is?
In fact, it's up to you - to use or not, to see everything, or only what is relevant to your work. I say it like this: "I have a magical, beautiful, pleasant to the touch button, which has ON and OFF. And I know how to use it." And at least in my personal life, I don't ask provocative questions. The main indicator outside of work is whether I can agree or not. This is all that solves.
Think about it: you have a talent for describing a person even on the basis of his photograph. Perfectly used in HR work or in preparation for negotiations. And in your personal life? Want to? Really? Are you sure? For example, a dating site. After all, the fact that a person of an analytical mindset, as opposed to you, a hurry, does not mean that you will be bored with him. And you discard the photo and take the next candidate, who is as nimble as yourself. And it's not a fact that your two identical qualities will benefit both of you: to get offended in a moment and not having time to think - to disperse in different directions … although, if you are so used to it ….
The ability to read people on the basis of all the techniques that you own is given in order to…. And then only your answer.
Think about it.
Do not hurry.
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