Cheer Up Your Partner With Jealousy

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The relationship between a man and a woman is never easy. Over time, falling in love passes, rose-colored glasses break and everyday life enters the life of people. Children and all the concerns and problems associated with this wonderful phenomenon appear. At some stage, partners begin to show less attention to each other. This may be due to various reasons, this is the need to spend more time at work, and activities related to raising children, but the fact remains. Men and women perceive this state of relationship differently, although at some points their reactions are very similar. Often, this situation is problematic because people begin to behave like children who have been offended and left without sweet, sweet in this case is the attention of the partner. And naturally, a person strives to fill this deficit with all available means, without even assuming that the result may turn out to be completely different from expectations.

Today we will focus on the method used mainly by women, but in fairness I must say that men also resort to it, although much less often. It consists in arousing jealousy in a partner, thereby making him pay more attention to his chosen one. A woman initially does not imply any connections on the side, but at the same time she needs her man to find out that others are interested in her and perhaps she has someone in mind. The woman believes that her man, having learned about this, will immediately begin to devote more of his time and attention to her … Accordingly, the problem, according to the woman, will be solved, since the man does not want to lose or give someone his only one. Perhaps, in some cases, this scheme will work and justify expectations, but not always. This kind of action is pure manipulation, and if a man understands this, then he will behave completely differently from what his partner imagines.

First, it will immediately affect his trust. Secondly, his self-esteem will be hurt, and this is a very difficult and painful experience for men. Thirdly, the reaction to such actions of the partner, despite the fact that there was no betrayal, can be extremely aggressive, in relation to her, it already depends on the character of the man. All this can lead to the fact that the relationship in a couple will deteriorate. Because, initially, deception was used as a method. And, as you know, it is impossible to build a normal relationship on a lie. In the future, a man can forgive a woman for such a trick, but he will never forget it. The situation can be aggravated by the fact that a man is able to mirror the behavior of a woman and commit real betrayal.

When a woman chooses such a model of behavior, she is sure that the result will be only the way she imagines it, but in reality, such manipulations with a loved one and his feelings can lead to a break in relations. Moreover, in most cases, after that it will not be possible to restore their / relations /. Jealousy is a feeling that is very beautifully described in novels, but in life it looks not so attractive at all, especially its consequences.

A person is built in such a way that he likes to spend time there and with those who consider him good, and he will pay more attention to those who positively assess him. If you want your partner to spend more time with you and pay attention, try to sincerely praise him more often, this applies to both men and women.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.