2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
How do these “mysterious creatures”, psychotherapists, live? Most likely in total happiness, joy, enlightenment and lightness. They do everything smoothly and everything works out. Groups, clients, a smile on your face. Not life, but sheer pleasure. And in my personal life, everything is excellent: the husband is handsome, the children are ideally brought up, a good home
Reality:
7.00 Alarm clock. Morning. Probably not worth drinking coffee today, herbal tea is better. My throat hurts, so yesterday I didn't finish talking to someone. Precisely, she did not say what exactly does not suit me and how I want. There is still no coffee, otherwise I will not wake up. Where did I put my storeroom! But, it means that we have according to plan today:
1. Personal psychotherapy. I think I've been walking for ages. But every time there is something new. I wonder what today.
2. 4 clients.
3. In the evening, a psychotherapeutic group.
4. Meeting with a colleague. We need to discuss a new project. I think we'll have time for lunch.
5. It would be nice to have dinner with Masha.
6. Ah! You need to sign up for supervision, otherwise everything is very confusing with one client. It looks like countertransference. And it would be nice to get a manicure somehow magically.
What to wear today? So, definitely a dress. This blue will be just right.
It's already 8.00. And why hasn't he wished me good morning yet. Not in order, I'll write it myself.
Where are the office keys? Well, no, every time it's the same where they disappear.
About sms came. What does "good morning" mean? It's all? It is not enough for me. Maybe he hasn't woken up yet, or there is a lot of steam at work. OK.
While I’m waiting for the elevator, it’s good to think about how shame and guilt are connected. Shame definitely arises in contact with another, guilt is rather a feeling that is experienced in isolation.
- Good morning! And have a nice day. I love this always smiling woman with sad eyes. Probably not an easy life for her.
What a lovely autumn morning. How much sun, depth, romance is in it. Nature is already saying goodbye. Smell, distant, cold sky, yellow leaves.
People, meetings, stories, feelings, suffering, joy, success, temporary difficulties, risk, divorce, new meeting, love, sex, children, new life, crisis, promotion at work, money, betrayal, betrayal, pain, tears, cleansing, search for one's own, desires, dreams, embodiment, mom, dad, mechanisms, scenarios.
Evening. 22.00 Where am I))). You need to close all windows in the office, check your mail and phone. 13 missed calls !!! I did not meet with Masha. And tomorrow there will be no time at all. And soon there will be a vacation, sea and new impressions.
And in my opinion I love him, or as we call it there, merging.)
I call a taxi:
- Where are you going?
- Home. Oh, now I remember the address.
I have that senile sclerosis at the age of 26. No, probably just tired. But I'm so happy because … No, I'm just happy.
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