2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
They met recently and liked each other. Two free young men: he and she. We decided to move in. And so. Friday evening.
By the end of the working week, he is used to relaxing at home, on the couch, hiding from everyone and recuperating in a quiet, relaxed, wandering in his inner world. "People?! Oh noooo !. There are a lot of them, they are annoying and always want something !!! ".
By the end of the working week, on the contrary, she experiences uplift and inspiration. Staying in quiet solitude is alien to her, she wants to be with people. "Hooray!! Friday weekend !!! Shodnyachim) ".
He likes the house, and she likes walks. He's a gadget, but she's in motion.
They negotiated for a long time. At first there was a debriefing, then one another, then another first … In the end, we were happy from being at home together with drinking cognac and dancing.
They ran for a long time from each other, then one after the other, then in different directions …: Grandma and granddaughter.
Then my grandmother asked: "Come more often, you don’t …." and the list of unfinished, unfinished and unfinished ones was endless. Then she asked the opposite with the same persistence and exactingness of an elderly person, deprived of youth, health, life partner and work.
And the granddaughter kept trying to snatch the time and come "in time" in order to finish the unfinished, unfinished, uncomfortable and get the same herself. All the time in fits and starts. Because business, work, children and husband, road and life …
The granddaughter is tired. I came to my grandmother and said: “I can come to you on Tuesday and Friday. And even in spite of whether you will drive me away or accept, silently reject or snarl angrily, I will come. These days I will always be, on others I cannot. I have more work to do. And I still have you."
Out of habit, out of habit for eight more meetings, my grandmother continued to run: now to her granddaughter, now from her … now in silence, now in impotent anger, an aching body. And then, one Tuesday, she stopped. Before the granddaughter left, she, as usual, tried her entire arsenal from “I forgot”, “help”, to “you are always in a hurry,” “no one needs me.”
And, all the arsenal of games ended, she stopped and said: "you are leaving so quickly …". Her eyes sparkled with tears, her body was relaxed, and her neck appeared for the first time from her drooping shoulders.
And the granddaughter, suddenly, stopped hurrying, the only thing she could say: “I love you too. I will definitely be there on Friday. And this time, there were joint hugs.
There is no consistency above or below, next to or near. She is always between and always paired. This is a search for a joint form of being nearby, a product of creativity. No other way. One launches, the other picks up, and both try to realize the digestible for themselves and the other.
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