2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There are many interesting facts about facial expressions, sign language. Alan Pease's wonderful speeches and books definitely deserve the attention of readers. I recommend reading Body Language.
But, while you do not have enough practice and you do not know how to use "body language" correctly, you can broaden your horizons with this article.
If you follow the path of simplification, then, already now, after reading this article, you will be able to draw conclusions about the person and about yourself, listening to what and how is happening in the speech.
Parasite words, which, as it turned out, also have their own meaning, fill our communication. These words not only pollute our speech, as many readers think, but also give out what you or you often do not say, hide or keep silent about.
Ready to find out what all the fuss is about? Let's start! For your attention a group of favorite words from the "top 10":
- "Everything!" (as if summing up) - People - putting an end to it. They leave the last statement for themselves - to cut off other people's opinions. Like the hero in the movie "The Meeting Place Cannot Be Changed": "A thief must be in jail! I said!" Putting an end is also a protective function in order to keep the situation under control, otherwise it is scary.
- "This is the most" - People who are prone to laziness, or who consider themselves very important persons. Usually they are looking for opportunities to dump their duties and responsibility for the consequences of activities on someone.
- By the way - People feel uncomfortable in small or large groups of people. They try to "timidly" attract attention to themselves.
- "Actually" - People are conflicted, they can create a scandal for no particular reason.
- "In short" - People are nervous, hurrying, hot-tempered, unbalanced.
- "In fact" - People for whom the center of the universe passes through their mind.
- "Means" - People prone to aggression, conservatives.
- "Type" - People tend to perceive reality one-sidedly, neglecting the opinions of others.
- "Simple" - People who want support and support outside. They want to justify their actions out of fear of judgment.
- "As if" - Creative people who are unconsciously confident in the plasticity and changeability, impermanence of the world.
There are many parasitic words, the more our world exists, the more words there will be to describe certain phenomena, actions, desires.
The parasitic words given here are far from all …
The meaning of the article is not in a story about how there are wide opportunities to pin up, denounce or groundlessly condemn a neighbor.
The task was to teach you, dear readers, to observe yourself. Show those elements of speech that ruin your condition, holding you at the point where you blindly repeat the "worn out" cycles of your life.
By the word "worn out" I mean those cycles that create suffering, and if your "cycles of life" consist of joy or happiness, then you don't need to change anything, and everything said in this article does not apply to you.
Human problem is not limited to speech parasites. The trouble is much wider. For the entire human language has incredible power. You can use a word to heal, cripple, humiliate, uplift, flatter, lie, praise, please, give care, compassion, love.
Filter what you think. Think what you say. And while saying something, watch what is happening, do not be an automatic, empty, soulless machine, programmed by the social system for "consumption for the sake of consumption."
Your thought is convicted in words - the more beautiful the word, the more pleasant the thought.
And the whole set of thoughts in "here and now" is what you call your state of consciousness. Pleasant words, thoughts are the key to creating a pleasant state of consciousness and pleasant, joyful impressions in life. Do not waste the energy of your life on backbiting, there is no need to spoil the soup of your consciousness with foul words. Remember, everything happens in your mind, both pleasant and unpleasant.
Direct your attention right now to the formation of pleasant thoughts, with the help of "beautiful", "warm", "soulful" words
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